I'm so fed up :((((

[Wannabepreggers]

I'm sorry ladies but right now, I'm so fed up at the moment. I'm currently halfway through another period (been trying 4 months now) & I just feel like it's never gonna happen!! I know in terms of trying, it's no time at all but it fels like ages!!

Basically, I just want to have a big fat tantrum about but I won't, coz I'm 30, so I'll just have some chocolate cake instead!

Anyone else feeling the same?

 

[frankie707]

I've only just started trying (6/7 weeks ago) but my flipping AF wont come (defo not pregnant-blood test neg) so my stupid body isn't even giving me a chance yet!! Very very frustrating!!

 

[flopsybunny]

Basically, I just want to have a big fat tantrum about but I won't, coz I'm 30, so I'll just have some chocolate cake instead!

LOL, just have a big fat tantrum. It will make you feel better. Then have some chocolate cake to reward yourslef for being able to let your feelings out!!

I know I am feeling the same at the moment. Been TTC for only 3 months but I also feel that it isn't going to happen. I just can't imagine myself looking at a positive pregnancy test or being pregnant.

xx

 

[flopsybunny]

Frankie, why won't your af come? Have you recently stopped BC?

xx

 

[frankie707]

Yes, stopped it start of december, had normal cycle start of jan and since then nothing! It could be my body settling down but also having a bit of a stressful time at work so dont think that is helping much!! Wish AF would just come so I can have some faith in my own body!Day 49 now!

 

[flopsybunny]

I had a 52 day cycle last year. I had been off BC for a year and wasn't hugely stressed. Our bodies like to mess with our minds I think. You must be so frustrated by it!!

xx

 

[ZMD]

i know how you feel hun, i was getiing fed up just before i got my bfp but id decided that id stop worrying and thinking about it.

We only bed twice before OV and to my complete shock i got my BFP!!
It will happen hun, Good luck!!

 

[flopsybunny]

Thanks ZMD, your story goes to show relaxing about it is good. Congratulations!!

xx

 

[vixxie77]

We were trying for 9 months and the last month when I came on I was so depressed and then this month it finally happened. I know its hard but just believe, it will happen!! x x

 

[Bead]

Hang in there all. It's so tough (we've been ttc for 6 months now), but when I get low, I think "well hey, we get to have lots of fun trying again for another month!"

 

[Future mum?]

I say have a tantrum Wannabepreggers - I'm with you, I'm 29 and always ready to spit the dummy - as my other half will testify, he gives me a hug and then laughs at me for being nuts which normaly sorts me out! It's good to let it all out sometimes.
Frankie - maybe we could do some sort of rain dance to get your af to hurry up and arrive - a sacrificial burning of the sanitary towels ?? On a more serious note I hope it comes really soon for you

 

[Kiwi]

Keep the faith ladies - I was led to believe I had little chance of conceiving naturally, so had pretty much resigned myself to recreational purposes only! Sure enough, once I stopped thinking about ttc I fell naturally the very next month. Am now 19 weeks pregnant with my little miracle xx

 

[Future mum?]

Thats great - well done! How are you keeping?

 

[Wannabepreggers]

Congrats to you Kiwi xxx

 

[serenitylove]

keep trying girls as depressing as it can be when af comes have cake have a cry then get enthusiastic for the next cycle it took me a very long time but it is always worth the wait good luck to you xxxx

ps if you are into this kind of thing meditate and ask the angels to help you and spiritual healing always worth a go to

 

[JJ Mum]

I fell with my middle son after 10 months of trying, and like so many of you have said, only once I had stopped really trying, and the fun came back into nookie, as it can geta bit dull when trying for a reason!
Then bingo

Fingers crossed for you, spend some real quality time on yourself to try to relax , get some face packs, bubble bath, nail stuff, whack the music on when in the bath, and spend regular slots pampering yourself in the evenings as it needn't be expensive. Your soon find yourself relaxed even if work is pants!

Keep going, you will get there.

 

[karenandbump]

Yeah I'm fed up too...was TTC for 2 months, got pregnant and then lost the baby a month ago. Af arrived a few days ago so back to TTC again next week....thought we were already there.

I've got a beautiful little boy but so want another one so yep count me in as fed up...we'll get there tho ladies xxx

 

[twinkle84]

Totally know how you feel, im in my 7mth of trying and its so tough. I think i have a tantrum every period. My attitude now is so negetive. I just tell myself I wont be preg, cos I wont be! Dont even bother testing now, AF comes when it comes! Sorry this is not what you want to hear. Its just me I seem to have bad luck in a lot of things! But keep trying hun, it will happen and as for the choc cake, just go for it. Thats what im doing, eating choc to cheer me up everymonth!! xx

 

[peachypam]

I know how you all feel.Being ttc 1 year now.Was sure I was this month and then the witch came this morning.Keep bursting into tears.Thinking of leaving it for a while as becoming an obsession.To make things worse, my periods are getting gradually worse as I get older (im 35).Cramp starts 5 days before I get period and continues for 1st few days.Just so fed up and emotional.Took it for granted in my twenties.Had my lovely daughter when I was 22 and my son when i was 27 (conceived in 1st month of trying).Oh well, gotta keep my chin up.Good luck to all you ladies trying.xxx

 

[Wannabepreggers]

Oooh you're all lovely, it's so nice to have people to talk to (or sound off) who are in the same position, I don't like to bang on about it to hubby too much, coz I don't want him to feel pressured.

Karenadnbump, I feel quite humbled having read your reply - it can't be easy going through what you did & I really, really hope you get pregnant soon xxx

Here's some baby dust for everyone (a bit blunt, but hey, GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!!)​