My OH and I have been going through a really rough time. Ive been feeling like we are on separate planets for months but ive accepted that he cannot possibly know how i feel etc. He's been wanting to make the most of his social life until the baby arrives but its left me feeling abandoned and that he wants to escape (there has been times in the past when things were ricky and he has admitted he just wanted to escape). Again, i have been biting my lip and letting him get on with it. But it came to a head for me last night and now i want to leave and go back to my parents for a while. We live abroad and I dont have much of a social circle (not had much time to build one up) and despite being in tears to my OH two nights ago explaining how lonely i felt he still went out. First I was upset that by 7pm he hadnt bothered to text me to ask how i was feeling ( I was quite ill yesterday) and nor had he bothered to text me to say he was staying out late (he went out at 3pm), instead i got a text to say what a fantastic time he was having and how he had met lots of new friends! I have never been a bunny boiler and dont begrudge meeting new people but i felt this was really insensitive. Then later in the evening I freaked out because i thought there was someone upstairs in the house, there wasnt, but i had enough by that point and called my OH to explain and ask when he was coming home. "Not for a while, im having some food with my new friends" was the response i got. That was it, I was gutted. Instead of coming home, he sent me a series of texts making out that i was being selfish. He is 43 for goodness sake! Its now become clear how things stand. I am going through the pregnancy and trying to prepare for a family life together but my OH is more insterested in developing his new life independant of my and our baby. I am not his priority. He says all the right things but his actions say the opposite. I dont feel cared for, I dont feel like he wants to be with me and i feel totally alone. All i am getting from him this morning is "i havent done anything worng" and as per usual, its me thats got the issue. Ive had enough. All i want to do is go home to my parents and be cared for there. After that i dont know.... I am gutted.