Dani2810
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hi girls
well to cut a long story short i left my OH 3 wks ago reason being i have had enough of his ridiculous behaviour - condesenading, insecure, manipulative & controlling
as much as i love him he was making me miserable & depressed & i could no longer cope until he saw his wrongs and turn himself around for our family.
i left london & travelled back up north to see my friends & familya.
he seemed to see his flaws and promised to work on things and a wk later i went to see him at first he was being awkward & had basically convinced himself i was going back althaaoaugh id made it quite clear i would be staying with a friend, we ended up having a lovely time together went for our babys 13wk scan & I went back up north all was well
i actually thought a corner had been turned ive been away for almost 2 weeks now everything has been fine until yesterday
iwas due to pick up a coach back to london & i missed it due toa an accident on the main road to the station this did not ago down well with my OH, he basically tried to say i was stupid & staged the whole thing he got me so upset i told him i wasnt going home to him & ive come back to my mums. i understand he was looking forward to me & baby comin home & was upset but why react so nastily to a problem i couldnt have forseen
i just dont need it i feel so low today my head is up my arse i just dont know what to do for the best im scared to goa baack incase he pulls one of his hissy fits 50% is saying move back home near my mum & he can follow if he wants & the other 50% is saying go back & give it a go im so confused
xxxx
well to cut a long story short i left my OH 3 wks ago reason being i have had enough of his ridiculous behaviour - condesenading, insecure, manipulative & controlling
as much as i love him he was making me miserable & depressed & i could no longer cope until he saw his wrongs and turn himself around for our family.
i left london & travelled back up north to see my friends & familya.
he seemed to see his flaws and promised to work on things and a wk later i went to see him at first he was being awkward & had basically convinced himself i was going back althaaoaugh id made it quite clear i would be staying with a friend, we ended up having a lovely time together went for our babys 13wk scan & I went back up north all was well
i actually thought a corner had been turned ive been away for almost 2 weeks now everything has been fine until yesterday
iwas due to pick up a coach back to london & i missed it due toa an accident on the main road to the station this did not ago down well with my OH, he basically tried to say i was stupid & staged the whole thing he got me so upset i told him i wasnt going home to him & ive come back to my mums. i understand he was looking forward to me & baby comin home & was upset but why react so nastily to a problem i couldnt have forseen
i just dont need it i feel so low today my head is up my arse i just dont know what to do for the best im scared to goa baack incase he pulls one of his hissy fits 50% is saying move back home near my mum & he can follow if he wants & the other 50% is saying go back & give it a go im so confused
xxxx