hubby wont give me sex

[kellylou]

No matter what i try he wont give in. He said i need to respect his dwcision that he feels uncomfortable doing it and that he feels uncomfortable i went in a right mood and said what about me? Argh i feel pants, huge and udesirable yak

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

I had to bribe Tim with a bj towards the end! Lol normally their gagging for it then when we want it they don't!!

 

[kellylou]

i tried that but oh is a (grrrr) he would get that and I would end up with nothing, think I might cry tonight and say mw recommended it and see how I get on!!

 

[SmallPurpleCat]

My hubby is the same! Just says he doesn't feel comfortable with it at the moment!

 

[kellylou]

i suppose I should respect what he says but my hormone levels are in overdrive and since being pregnant have only had one bonk!!

 

[XXXKIEZXXX]

I know the feeling, my other half has been working away for the last few months so i havnt even had the choice of sex, but when he returns next week il make sure he has his wicked way with me he he he.
If he comes up with the "I dont feel comforable" excuse them il try your trick Kellylou and say midwife recommends it, he'll not know any different. I trick him into it some how )

Hope we all get want we want soon ladies xxxx

 

[xxbeckyxx]

Aww *hugs* me and OH are the other way round, I feel kinda weird, and the logistics of it kinda take away the fun, I nearly always get cramp in my hips halfway through, or feel the baby moving and get put off :S
However, he seems to find me sexier than ever (uhh...how??). It makes me wonder why I used to bother working out if he likes me chunky lol!!

 

[kellylou]

hmmm I think I have always associate sex with being wanted where as hubby is more cuddles and says things and finds it weird I want sex for reassurance he forgets I want to try and get the baby out!!

 

[Collette]

Im with Becky, hubby is very understanding and doesnt pressurize me. I need to get the general affection back though coz that seems to have gone with it.

 

[Marianne]

My OH is totally different, it's me who cant get in the mood most of the time and he falls out with me about it. He wants sex constantly lol, drives me mad. I enjoy just relaxing these days and dont even think about sex really, now and again the urge takes me but he doesnt understand, he thinks i've went off him, its so hard trying to explain to him that i havent went off him, I still love him to bits and find him very very attractive but I dont think he believes me. I usually give in to him wanting sex just so he doesnt get paranoid and not fall out with me lol. its horrible.