We are in our 8th month of TTC and the hardest thing about it is trying to keep it sexy for my OH. He has told me that having sex just for the purpose of making babies is not the biggest turn on, and I absolutely agree with him, of course its easier for us ladies to just 'have it' so to speak, than the men. If they are not into it, it just cant happen! So I have not told him when Ive been ovulating, Ive donned my kinkiest outfits and attitudes.... but alas he is not that stupid, he knows exactly what Im up to. I sometimes wish I had never told him about all the ins and outs of baby making, cos that way it wouldnt have put any pressure on him, he wouldnt think I was totaly mental with all these OPK's, basal temperature charts and whatnot, but at the same time, I need to be organised, I have to make sure that we dont have visitors on important nights etc so I have to tell him not to make plans. I know I have to learn to chill out with it all, but its really hard when you want something so much isnt it? Especially when you have to rely on someone else to help you with it (Im not used to relying on anyone!!). Has anyone got any good advice to give or share my problem? Do your DP's share your enthusiasm about TTC?