How do u stay calm,

[Belle23]

I seem to be panicky all the time. I read about someone else losing their baby at same amount of weeks as I am now and that's it I start to panic. How do u all stay calm??? I feel like I'm going crazy cxxxx

 

[Maria1977]

Hi hun

Everything is pretty much out of our control so you just have to focus and try and be positive, I know that's not easy though.

Just get through each day at a time, what will be will be unfortunately.

 

[TaffyRose]

I know how you feel hun. I've been keeping pretty calm and taking each week at a time and telling myself as I've had no bleeding or bad pain there's no reason to worry but it is hard. My OH has been really good at reassuring me but I do have a real fear that something will be wrong at the scan. I guess like Maria says, it's a case of deep breath, stay positive and what will be will be xxx

 

[frankie247]

whatever will be will be, things happen for a reason - you just need to let your body do what it needs to do and go with the flow. I've lost both of my pregnancies so far, and now fingers crossed its third time lucky. Am i worried? more than anything, but all i can do is go with the flow and hope for the best.

 

[babyelmo]

I can only agree with what everyone else has said really. I'm not calm at all, in fact I think this pregnancy has turned me completely nuts with worry! But Im taking each day at a time and hoping that all will be well.

 

[littlesmoosh]

i am the exact same!!!!! i spend my days and nights worrying about miscarriage! and i reckon as soon as ive been and seen my 12 week scan if all is well il calm down about miscarriage and start to worry about abnormalities intil my 20 week scan. then after that i reckon il worry the baby will come too soon or be still born. then if all is well and baby comes then il worry for the rest of my life about my child as all parents do. i think we will all worry from day one. its just natural. i bet all our mums and dads still worry about us!
just do everything you can. eat healthy. sleep enough. dont smoke or drink. dont eat any of the off limit foods and dont work too hard/lift anything too heavy. then if the worst was to happen you'll know you did the best you could.
good luck

xx

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[Kirsty.Y.84]

I don't! I am never calm! I worry about everything and nothing helps. I have had no bleeding or cramps but also not really any pregnancy symptoms (apart from gaining weight!) so I don't feel like I'm pregnant! Soo scared something is wrong xxxx

 

[Loula]

i thnk were all panicking a little bit, i know im cacking myself until i see that little heartbeat again in a couple of weeks x

 

[Belle23]

I just can't help but panic I only had My scan yesterday and now I am panicky again. This is where it all happened last time and now I can't help but panic, why can't the next two weeks go quick as got another scan for 10 weeks, I just can't help but worry, xxxx