How can a doctor make u feel so rubbish?!

[*Hope*]

I agree with the others its terrible but its exactly what my doctor said to me when i first went too.

said its so early its more of a miracle if the pregnancy does make it and that she (yep a woman) hates these new pregnancy tests which tell you early because most pregnancies will be lost in the first few weeks anyway and just bring on a late period.

awful to hear isnt it!!

 

[midnightrose25]

It certainly is!

Is that your horse in the pic? i've got 3 horses, only reason i ask lol x

 

[Yodabo]

Well done for complaining Hun, I'm sure your next appointment with a PROPER doctor will be much more pleasant! I hope that so called doctor get what's coming to him!

 

[Tasha89]

That's disgraceful! Go you for writing a letter! Luckily I managed to catch one of the friendly docs when I told them but I don't know how i'd have reacted to a remark like yours gave you! What a d*ck!
It's strange enough just getting used to the idea of ACTUALLY being pregnant, cant imagine it helping if you've a twat for a doc like him! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! Try not to stress too much about it! Besides, there's a beautiful little person starting to grow in your tummy that you've got to worry about now as well! Hehe! Xx

 

[beth1234]

Eugh doctors are amazingly stupid sometimes. When my friend found out she was pregnant, he got out a ''marie stopes abortion clinic'' referral paper. she was horrified because shes 22 and was TTC! *******. So many people find out at like 1-2 weeks and manage to have healthy babies, and they have the cheek to tell you its a miricle too. What, its a miricle if you find out your pregnant at 2 weeks and it survive rather than find out at 6-7-8 weeks and it survive? Idiots arnt they. cannot beleive im actualy training to be one of those! LOL! xx

 

[*Hope*]

It certainly is!

Is that your horse in the pic? i've got 3 horses, only reason i ask lol x

Yes it is I have 2. what you got? x

 

[Baby Bean]

I'm really glad you've complained hun, some doctors are such tw*ts! My GP is awful, when I was on the pill my periods stopped, which they shouldn't do. I went to see the GP and I knew it was cos of the pill but the doctor was adamant it wasn't and even said I would probably have difficulty conceiving as I probably had polycystic ovaries. She didn't change my pill but didn't even send me for any tests. I was really upset. But, I was right, I came off the pill and my periods came back with a vengence, and my OH and I managed to conceive ok as I'm 8 weeks pregnant now! Some of them need to be struck off. I didn't complain but with I had! Enjoy your prengancy

 

[midnightrose25]

Thankyou guys for all your comments, and strong opinions. I agree with them all and will defo be writing this formal letter of complaint. Seeing the other dr tomorrow so fingers crossed! i'm a bit nervous! i must admit i'm not the nicest person recently, VERY irritable lmao! x

 

[louise280981]

hope it all goes well tomz you deserve an appointment with a really understanding doctor lets us know how you get on xxx

 

[midnightrose25]

hope it all goes well tomz you deserve an appointment with a really understanding doctor lets us know how you get on xxx

i will babe, thankyou! xx

 

[ToffeePop]

That's really out of order I can understand concerns about early testing *but surely this isn't the way to approach talking to someone about it?

Sounds like a GP needs a refresher course in "talking to patients like humans" - what a tw.t!

Hope your next doctor is more understanding - and good for you for lodging a complaint. How fecking archaic IS that doctor?!?

 

[kellylou]

OMG that is absolutely shocking that the DR could say anything like that I would have walloped him round the head!!

 

[skimpy]

How are things now? Have you had your appointment with the other doctor?

FX everything ok, thinking of you xXxXx