Housework, ironing, feet, back, BATH!!!

[MrsR]

Grrr and OWWWWWWWW!! OH got 'need for speed most wanted' for his birthday and when I got up this morning no washing up had been done from dinner last night even though he was up til gone midnight! So I that's how I started my day!! Doing my most hated chore ever! Then I have been really 'nesty' today and done all the housework, washed clothes that I'm not sure needed washing (ok I admit I washed the baby clothes *blush*) went food shopping, got home and sobbed because of the pain I was in with my back, picked DD up from school, made dinner (made OH wash up), sat down and.......OH immediatly put on the playstation! Grr. Meanwhile I still had clothes drying so was up and down checking them then attacked the mountain of ironing I'd made for myself by washing unnecessary things whilst OH sat there! I then said 'i feel loads better now I'm back on top of the housework' and he replies, 'yeah, it's getting there'!!!! Getting there?!!!! WTF?! Anyway by the time I'd finished my feet felt like they were on fire, my ankles were killing me and my back and ligament pain were off the scale!!! So I have retreated to the bath and I am not moving!!!

 

[Natasha+1]

Oh how I know your pain... MEN!!!!

 

[vixforever]

Grrr at your OH

 

[isobel84]

aw babe.. i do understand him i hate housework, but it dont get done by it self. Oh dont help much here but then again we dont live together yet so he comes late and leaves before 6am so i wouldnt expect him too. but when we do live togheter it will be eitherway cookin dinner or washing up, im not having anythingelse.
PUT YA FOOT DOWN or just refuse him sex until he starts taking the load of you. that always work

 

[tinkerbell86]

Well i can't complain as my OH was out working last night but i was sorting out stuff as we are moving and decided to go under the bed to put stuff in the underbed storage boxes and ouch did i pay for it today!!! My back is killing!!! So i feel your pain!!

 

[MrsR]

He's usually really really good and will help out etc but the last two days he's been crap! I already told him today that its not a lot to ask-we have the 'I cook, he cleans' rule and all I ask him to do is wash up-that's ALL the housework he has to do! I was just really frustrated tonight-as for withholding sex I have NO sex drive so the last time we had sex was 2 months ago! Maybe I should withhold food?! Hmmmmmm now THERE'S an idea x

 

[isobel84]

2 month? i should stop moaning i think. its been 3 days for me and i called OH this morning woke him up at 6.30 and had a go at him about it.