hi all

[Mellymoomin06]

lots of luck for the morning hun xxx

 

[firstbaby9573]

hey all iv been to the hosp this mornin for my scan and again they cudnt see a thing, so sent me to gyne. iv basically been told either way i have lost my baby coz it sounds like a PUL which is a pregnancy of unknown location. so im having another blood test in the morning n if it goes down then its miscarrying itself but if it goes up again im gonna have to have a laperoscomy to find where the baby is growing and get it out. im absolutly devastasted,
one one hand i want the level to rise soo soo badly that they do another scan and find my baby all fine and cosy in my uterus, but at the same time i want it to decline so i dont have to go under the knife.
i had a laperoscomy two years ago for endometriosis and it was a horrible time so much pain and i just dont want to go through it all again.
im just so upset right now

 

[LYLLJellyTots]

Aww sweetheart I know there's nothing that can be said right now to help but I wanted to let you know I am thinking of you xxxxxxxx big big hugs xxxxxxxxx

 

[Mellymoomin06]

So sorry to read this sweetheart... big hugs to you xxx

 

[MrsV]

So sad for you hun. Sending virtual hugs x

 

[Zoziebubly]

Oh hun im so sorry.
Iv suffered with a few PUL's they are devastating and very confusing. im so sorry you are going this hun.

xxx

 

[tambo1976]

Hope you are ok honey xx sending a big hug xx

 

[firstbaby9573]

im just waiting to see what my next levels are this afternoon and then they r gonna scan me again next week and another blood test to see if everythings ok..

what a rollercoaster !!!!

 

[Sal76]

Just want to send you big hugs luv, I know how hard it is but try and think positive in the fact they spotted it early. I had ectopic which wasn't spotted and burst my tube which meant I lost it and nearly died into the bargain.

Lots of hugs and love

Sx

 

[firstbaby9573]

thanks guys, iv just reposted my entire story on this thread under PUL , have a read if you liek and tell me what you think.

 

[firstbaby9573]

update!!

my levels went up from 1275 to 1444, so they are still rising but very slowly, i know this points to eptopic, or can be normal, or just a miscarrage waiting to happen...

the consultant wants to see me tomo and i know hes going to want to do a laperoscomy but im not lettign anyone perform surgery on me untill i have seen on the scan where the foetus is actually growing!
i might just be being silly but i just think at this stage it mite just still be too early to see anything so i want to wait and see what happens....

thoughts??

 

[Sal76]

You may not see the foetus in your tube, when I was bleeding I went for six weeks scan and they saw a thickened lining what they thought was a start of something and nothing in either tube, two weeks later I had drugs to flush my system out as hgc levels rising but too little two weeks after that I was in a and e with ruptured Fallopian tube and almost fatal internal bleeding. If they don't see a definite sac in your womb luv please please seriously consider having the op as it may save your life xxx this happened to me in June of this year and I am now 10 and a half weeks pregnant so it is possible to try again after op but please please don't put your health in serious danger xxxxxxx hugs hugs hugs xxxxx

 

[firstbaby9573]

You may not see the foetus in your tube, when I was bleeding I went for six weeks scan and they saw a thickened lining what they thought was a start of something and nothing in either tube, two weeks later I had drugs to flush my system out as hgc levels rising but too little two weeks after that I was in a and e with ruptured Fallopian tube and almost fatal internal bleeding. If they don't see a definite sac in your womb luv please please seriously consider having the op as it may save your life xxx this happened to me in June of this year and I am now 10 and a half weeks pregnant so it is possible to try again after op but please please don't put your health in serious danger xxxxxxx hugs hugs hugs xxxxx

thanks for the message, dont worry i wont ever put myself at risk, i just still think im 4 weeks or under, so i know you cant see anything yet even if everythings normal? i just want to wait a week to see if nethign starts forming and then decide from there.

 

[Sal76]

Just look after yourself luv if your lmp was 15 aug you'd be around 8 weeks ( 6 gestational) sending lots of sticky dust your way xxxxx