Hi all, id like some advice

[nadine]

Well its not so much advice,

ive only just found out im going to be having a new lil baby, n for that im so blesss n greatfull,

however im worrie how i will cope with two very young children, just wanted to know your experiences if you have two children close together

i no it sounds silly but i dont want my lil boy to feel push out n i hope i love my new lil baby as much as him, (daft i no)

is it really really had having a toddle (my lil boy will nearly b 3 when baby here) with a new born, im not on my own like i was with my first but its the only thing really worring me, i just want to be a good mummy! X

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Hi hun i have no experience but i'm sure everyone worrys...im worrying im not going to be a good mam.

You will cope...everyone else does. Congrats by the way xxx

 

[nadine]

thank you hun, i think its just pre jitters, us woman are worriers, x

 

[Emmamb]

Hiya...there was 2 yrs 8 months between my eldest and my 2bd and I actually found it a lot easier. 3 is a nice age gap cos they're old enough to understand and help with bits like bathtime etc xxx

 

[nadine]

awwwwwwww, you made me feel a lil better, i do hope so. there will be 2year 9 months between remy n new baby so same as you really x

how did prepare 1st child with new of baby did you do thing b4 hand or juts go with the flow x

 

[Cantstop]

I was talking about this with my mam earlier - there's two and a half years between me and my brother and she reckons when you have a new baby with a toddler they get more responsible and step up with being your little helper. Another plus with them being quite close in age is they'll be able to play together and free up your time in a few years too. Like others have said, you're bound to worry, but when it comes to it the fact that you want to be a good mam and are worrying about it will mean you will be!

 

[nadine]

thank you, i no im prob worring about nothing, n i no in any situation havin a new baby is hard work in many wasy but im looking forward to it so much,

thanks again girlies, x x x

 

[Emmamb]

I used to encourage my eldest to talk to my bump and let him buy a present for baby,I also took him to my 20 week scan so he could see baby. The early years was the easy part...they fight like cat and dog now lol xx

 

[misscrazycooki]

I duno where my sister went wrong then her son is a terror wants all her attention and hits and smoothers his baby sister half the time omg i hate being out with him sometimes and he is 4

 

[nadine]

miss crazy i didnt need to hear that hahahahhah lol
only playing im sure ill be fine x x x

 

[misscrazycooki]

its ok we all reckon his has got adhd or something just my sister is too lazy to do anything about it.