My youngest is almost 4 years old, my husband and I have had a bumpy ride getting to the decision to ttc baby number 3.
He has confided in me that he would love another baby but he never ever wants me to be I. Labour again.
With my second there were 2 true knots in the cord. No one in our room had ever seen in and I wish I had taken a photo! His heart stopped every time I pushed but we didn't know why until he was born. He was blue and he wasn't breathing and required resuscitation.
I was focused on the job at hand, I had to push him out and quickly, there was a 7 ft Dr with a pair of forceps threatening to drag him out. I pushed him out in 3 mins after a very quick labour (4cm to pushing in under 10 mins after increasing the hormone drip)
He says he feels traumatised, he saw it all, I didn't so I don't have the same memories.
He doesn't want counselling, but can anyone else think of ways I can help him?
I've thought about pre screened. Wbem? Not sure he would be up for that though
He has confided in me that he would love another baby but he never ever wants me to be I. Labour again.
With my second there were 2 true knots in the cord. No one in our room had ever seen in and I wish I had taken a photo! His heart stopped every time I pushed but we didn't know why until he was born. He was blue and he wasn't breathing and required resuscitation.
I was focused on the job at hand, I had to push him out and quickly, there was a 7 ft Dr with a pair of forceps threatening to drag him out. I pushed him out in 3 mins after a very quick labour (4cm to pushing in under 10 mins after increasing the hormone drip)
He says he feels traumatised, he saw it all, I didn't so I don't have the same memories.
He doesn't want counselling, but can anyone else think of ways I can help him?
I've thought about pre screened. Wbem? Not sure he would be up for that though