Help with conception date. . =(

[Rachel1509]

When did you have your last period? Ignore what scans have said, just try and remember the date of your last menstrual period

 

[l_maclean]

When did you have your last period? Ignore what scans have said, just try and remember the date of your last menstrual period

bare in mind that you can have a period while pregnant.

 

[boobookee]

I know, i seem to of got myself in a real bad situation. Sometimes it just doesnt feel real i see thing like this on jeremy kyle and think how on earth can people not know!! and yet here i am in the same horrible situation.

My family seem to think my last period was at the beginning of july but i think myself it was around the 14th of july then at the beginning of august i had 2 days of brownish spotting which i was expecting to be a period. after this i spotted again around the 18th of august so i really dont know.

I am going to see my midwife tomorrow and this will be the 1st thing i will ask as i really need to start enjoying my pregnancy. Thanks again for all ur help and opinions its much appretiated xx

 

[angelmma]

Hey chick, the dates on the scans can be abit wrong so the only way to tell is by DNA test. Tbh I know its hard but I think its only right you tell your partner and get a DNA test, i know you dont wanna lose him or hurt him, but if there is even the slightest chance that its not his he has a right to know. Im the first one to say anyone can be a father but it takes alot to be a daddy, but he has to be the one to decide what to do if the child is not his. You also have to think of the future, as I had a friend in a simular situation as you, and a few years down the line the person she had slept with (not her OH) had got solitors involved as he was insisting the child was his, and a DNA test of both men was taken and the other fella not her OH was the father and it was such a distressing time for all of them. Good luck chick and I hope it all works out haha xxx

 

[suzzi]

if i was in your situation id have to own up and be honest with my partner. if you wait till baby is born to bring it up your partner will have a bond with baby and its not fair, also what if this one night stand gets to know about your baby and starts asking questions?

honesty really is best hun xx