lisey27
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I have been up and down, i felt ok wednesday but yesterday and today I feel so low, i keep going over everything, thinking about next time, wondering what supplements to take etc...
I know I need to relax but its so hard when its all so fresh
I just feel like theres no hope after 2 MC, even though I know there are lots of people that go on to have successful pregnancies.
I keep wondering if we should just try again (in a few months) and hope for the best or if we should go for tests? I dont know what these tests are called or what they check for, I have looked at clinics on line and they seem to test after 3 MC but found zita west who will do tests after 2 or more. It will be expensive so I just dont know what to do! the doctors dont seem to think I have cause for concern as I had a trouble free full term pregnancy so would I be wasting loads of money in order to have tests?
I am finding it hard to muster up the energy to do anything, I have zero motivation and am avoiding people, I wont even go to my OH parents as I feel like I have let them down, I have lost their grand-child, I know they wouldnt think this for a second, they are great people but I can't shift the feeling.
I am sorry for the rant and moan, just needed to get it out I guess xx
I know I need to relax but its so hard when its all so fresh
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I keep wondering if we should just try again (in a few months) and hope for the best or if we should go for tests? I dont know what these tests are called or what they check for, I have looked at clinics on line and they seem to test after 3 MC but found zita west who will do tests after 2 or more. It will be expensive so I just dont know what to do! the doctors dont seem to think I have cause for concern as I had a trouble free full term pregnancy so would I be wasting loads of money in order to have tests?
I am finding it hard to muster up the energy to do anything, I have zero motivation and am avoiding people, I wont even go to my OH parents as I feel like I have let them down, I have lost their grand-child, I know they wouldnt think this for a second, they are great people but I can't shift the feeling.
I am sorry for the rant and moan, just needed to get it out I guess xx