Getting so pi$$ed off now

[Mackmummy]

Just so fed up, can't get pregnant, fed up of trying my cycles are all over the place can't track anything. Just come on my period a week and a half early, I ovulated early as well but last month my period was two weeks Kate. Just fed up

 

[Ttc1234]

I see you already have a toddler - did it take you a while to conceive? Have your cycles ever returned to normal after him? It's a tough game this ttc..we have just started trying for no 2 and already I feel desperate to be pregnant! Hopefully it'll happen soon for both of us - hang in there

 

[Mackmummy]

He took over a year but hubby works away and is only home weekends but it's been two years now. It's only the last two months my cycle has been stupid and so out of sync, I have a long cycle anyway but it's been pretty regular. Just feel fed up cos at First I thought it might be implantation bleeding but I don't think it is now. Feel like I could kill someone (not literally, just really grumpy) and have yucky belly pains. I'm 42 so just fee like it's getting too late

 

[Ttc1234]

Yeh it's as if your body knows you're madly ttc so it messes things up just to annoy you! Maybe it is implantation bleeding?! Will keep my fingers crossed for you

 

[treetrunks]

I can relate, we have been trying over 2 years now and waiting for appointment for recurrent MC clinic. I've started to think its just not going to happen now, keep getting hopes up every month and buying loads of tests but am regularly disappointed, either with a chemical, early Mc or just plain AF.
So last month I really thought I'd done it, got nice strong lines and positive digital 10dpo, took AC and aspirin, hadn't touched any alcohol for months, taken vitamin supplements and eaten well etc, but then even before I was due AF started spotting and ended up with a really heavy 5 day bleed with clots.
So really very fed up with it.
We missed my ov day this cycle so last night I got the wine out!
I think it takes such a toll on us, I totally get how your feeling, everyone around seems to have just had babies or they're happily sporting neat little bumps out in the sunshine!
If I had the money I would take the ivf route already but we have basic jobs and outgoings and older children on both sides to support.
So all I can say is 'your not alone' there's many of us stuck in this limbo. Xx

 

[Hoping for no2]

Might be worth a visit to your GP for some blood tests, if your cycle is not playing ball? Things can obv change a lot in 2/3 years, and as you get older. I hope you get your BFP soon X

 

[Mackmummy]

Thanks guys, tree trunks, so sorry to hear all your sad news it's just horrible, every month is such a disappointment. Think I am going to get some tests done x

 

[treetrunks]

Yes, good luck and keep us updated cx

 

[ts2573]

I was right with you for 8 years. You name it we tracked it. We had multiple doctors say it just probably wasn't going to happen because my cycles were shot and my hormones were bad.

I am now 8 weeks. A new doctor looked last week and said he cannot see anything wrong with hormones going back all the 8 years. I should have been able to conceive and he would have ram tests to see why my cycles were irregular.

See a GP and demand tests.

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[miamia]

Mackmummy - stay positive and don't give up. Myself I know w few ladies who underwent a few IVF-s, and got pregnant via PGS NGS or IVF with donor eggs. Keep my fingers crossed x