From 1 extreme to another....

[Chazabell]

I haven't been around much as you know....that's what I do when I'm not cycling. But I do keep popping on to check on you all

Well....get this for a Bella's own story.

As you know, I've been trying over 4 years for my 1st baby. And my sister has not.

My sister found out she was pregnant, I was a little annoyed and even posted on here moaning and then deleted it when I saw sense. She hasn't been trying, smokes, drinks, and eats unhealthily and can fall pregnant without trying.

I booked up my ideas and got my head around it, and thought....I live 90 miles away so I won't see her bump grow (hardest part for me as all o want is a bump), the only hurdle is the birth and I'll be fine.

But...she went for her 1st scan and found out she was 38 WEEKS pregnant and the baby was engaged and ready to go


All my feelings went out of the window and I immediately started hunting for bits to buy my 1st nephew and help out my sister whilst she was getting her head around the fact she was going to become a mum in 2 weeks.

Those of you who have me on facebook will have seen me post about this and know that at 39+2 she had a perfect little boy called Toby and he stole my heart.

My sister has suddenly grown up and taken to motherhood really well, and I think it has helped me get over all my fears for IVF etc as I want that little bundle of perfectness

It's just crazy that here is my, waiting for 4 years and starting IVF. And my sister......didn't even know she was pregnant and didn't have to wait even 4 weeks lol xxxx

 

[Dee28]

Omg! That's crazy! I'm glad it's all turned out great, being an Aunty have me do much joy in the early days before I had a child so embrace it xxx

 

[gemmainthesun]

wow how the hell did that happen! Absolute madness! In a way easier for u I guess you didn't have to go through all the announcments, scans, bump etc but madness that she didn't know till then! Glad you love your little nephew, I adore my niece so much and don't feel one ounce of jealousy to my sister its a very strange thing the family bond x

 

[Blueflower]

How bizarre! So does she not have much of a bump then?

 

[Lara_M]

I was thinking the same thing? At 38 weeks I looked like I'd swallowed a bowling ball. Didn't she notice her tummy was looking a bit porky? lol x