FOB

[HeppiBean]

Hey girls!

Well, some of you probably remember my previous post, not long after FOB and I split and how I was feeling at the time.

I'm now much happier in myself and feeling like an entirely new person. And (2 months down the line) FOB has asked if I will give him another chance. If he'd have asked me any sooner I would have sprung at the opportunity... But!!

I said that yes I miss him, and yes I still love him and that I would love for us to be together again... But not right now. I said that I need to see if he is responsible enough around Cesca and I before I put myself in that situation again. So nothing will be happening about it any time soon.

He said that he's willing to wait and to prove himself to me.

I'm so proud of myself for not jumping at the chance straight away, and I do hope that he can stick to his promises of not smoking weed (which a friend of mine who sees him alot is keeping me updated on), finding himself work as soon as his stomach ulcer is under control, and generally being a more responsible person. If we do get back together in the future, I'm going to stay with my Mum at first and just generally take things slow.

I really hope that things do work out. I want them to so much. But I am scared because of what has happened in the past...

Just thought I'd let you all know

Katie xxx

 

[DaisyPurple]

I'm proud of you for your strength in holding off for keeping your head and for waiting for him to prove himself as worthy x well done Katy you have come a long way your doing really well by the sound of things I'm so happy for you xx

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

Well done Hun, sounds like your in control but your OH is trying. Hope he sorts himself out soon x x

 

[lanny]

You sound so much happier and well done for not jumping straight back into things with o/h you are doing really well xxxxx

 

[Elfs Mummy]

Well done you sound so much happier really pleased for you xx

 

[LucyAnn]

well done! you certainly sound alot happier and positive its good to hear you have the control on when and if you get back together xxxxx

 

[baby43]

I split up i think around the time of conception with the FOB. I told him i was pregnant and he does not want to know us!!!

So i've made my decision if he dont want to know now, he never will want to know.. this has made me feel even stronger and have the courage and will power!!! women are built emotionally better than men...

If he cant deal with it, then i CAN its just me and my baby!!!

I'd rather be alone to do this my way Im not scared anymore because i have the strengh for 2 !!!!

If i carry for full term then i be proud to be a woman and have my baby as my love of my life XXXX

Even if he did come back I would not like him to start interferring .... Its me thats building a bond right now and i hope the bond will become bigger and bigger XXX

 

[baby43]

HeppiBean XXX i am happy for you too stay strong XXX

 

[Fozzy]

Well personally for my sake i hope you don't get back with him

on the other hand you know how i feel about him not bothering with "Munch", he needs to buck up his ideas soon or his daughter won't know who he is :/

xxxx

 

[HeppiBean]

It is an old thread you know lol But yehh... He really does xx