Finding out the sex?

[Steelgoddess]

Just wondering who is going to find out the sex and who isn't im still undecided Im so impatient with everything but a suprise might be nice (although all bubs are a nice surprise anyway)

 

[Steelgoddess]

I put still undecided Im so unsure!!!

If I find out then I can buy the cutest little things and be confident that its going to look fine on bubs.

If I don't then in the birth it will be a more emotional experience...

Whats a girl to do?!

 

[breezee1984]

i clicked the wrong one by accident !!! i want top know but DH doesn't

 

[Gem & Leland]

i want to know !

 

[CB23]

undecided - I don't know what to do at all

 

[Babylicious]

Undecided too, Seany thinks we should wait

 

[Urchin]

We're gonna find out, it's so much cheaper that way plus I figured its still the same surprise, you just find out sooner.

 

[little*red]

I want to know but DH is still undecided. He really desperatly wants a boy and doesnt want to upset me if he is a bit disappointed if its a girl. I said well you'll just be disappointed at the birth then, and he said 'well no, because the baby is there and you cant imagine it being anthing else, whereas with a scan its still almost not real because you still cant see it.'
mens logic

 

[poppy160]

I always said I wasn't going to find out, but a lady I used to work with told me my first child will be a boy, she is pshychic (sp). I kinda believe her..but I'm gonna find out cause I'm expecting it to be a boy. I also had a dream I was having a boy aswell the other night.

 

[tots hope]

Not yet pregnant but i don't think we will find out the sex. My SIL found out and told everyone and i really wish she hadn't as now its just waiting till he arrives and knowing what the weight is. We already know the name and the sex.

Personal preference though i guess and i CERTAINLY don't judge anyone for finding out x x x x

 

[muppetmummy]

OH and I would both love to know, but it's unlikely we will because I think they refuse to tell you the sex at scans up here. I don't think it's worth the money paying for a private scan just to find out the sex.

I found out James was a boy at the 20 week scan and picked his name. I found it helped to bond with him before he was born as he already had an identity.

I think that if you're really hoping for a certain sex it might be better to find out before the birth so you can deal with any disappointment before the big day

 

[fifi211]

I voted that yes we will find out. We found out last time and it meant we knew what to buy, we had a name for baby from 20 weeks and it didn't take anything away from the birth at all, it was still exciting.

 

[gemmap27]

I wanna surprise!

I might only do this once!

x

 

[Steelgoddess]

gr8 replies girls and everyone has made brilliant points. now im really unsure lmao!!

x