Feeling strange.. whats wrong with me?

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Wow, what a weird last few days, i dont know exactly whats wrong with me but it started friday night-ish. Hubby came home from work and i had a very tiring day, nothing physical, there was no reason for me to be hormonal or emotional, i just felt like poo and that i wanted to curl up in bed all day. i didint have much to say to OH. i got up the next morn and felt the same. OH normally dosnt work weekends but had to this sat and sun so it realy has made me loose track of my days. i feel so crappy and like i dont want to speak to anyone, or do anything i feel so ugly and tired and smells are really getting to me. OH has been sweating in his sleep this week and iv had no energy to wash the sheets and get on with the laundry so ended up on the couch lastnight just coz i was so fed up and couldnt stand the smell of our bedroom which it probably dosnt even smell at all. even the smell of the carrots and dip i took up to bed made me wake up and move them lastnight. anyway so i decided to cheer me up i would invite my friend over whos got a 7 week old baby girl and i just wanted so badly to hold a new baby. so Jana came over and i had snuggles with her little one and sat in babys nursery showing her the baby bits i had got as she wanted to see. the whole night i was getting really sore cramps in my lower bump, back and bum :( i dont know why but it was really draining and upset me. i feel so crappy and woke up this morning just wanting to pull my hair out as i know theres alot to get on with today and i just DO NOT have any sorts of energy. i actually feel like theres something wrong with me im aching and my social skills have just died overnight :( OHs dad came over to say hi yesterday and normaly im well up for visitors and am a happy bubbly person. i think he noticed and i felt so bad i just didnt want to see anyone. im fed up with going to the toilet every few mins too. i think i poop more than i pee!! :oops: i feel so weak im like a zombie. totaly not myself at all.. does anyone else feel like this and how long does it last ?? :cry: xx
 
Awww hun :hug: :hug: :hug:

When you get to the last weeks you can get so overly irratated and its just normal.
Theres nothing wrong with you and it will pass :hug:

You never know it could also be the start of things,

fingers crossed for you hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
aww thanks hun :hug: :hug: i was really hoping someone would reply but wasnt sure with the tech difficulties i hope it gets fixed soon !x
 
sorry to hear your feeling rubbish :(
could you be coming down with something? my local hospital closed half a department over the weekend because everyone has been run down with a virus including all the staff so they just couldnt take anyone else in.

Your routine could have just been thrown as well with your OH working the weekend theres all sorts that can set us off our bodies are extremely sensitive to things at the minute, it really doesnt take much to put you in bed for a few days.

Hope it passes quickly for you but if your really in a bad mood and just keep taking it out on your OH or other people, dont beat yourself up over it, these things happen. I spend a lot of time shouting (unfairly) at OH then spend an hour crying feeling guilty and its just not worth it. Maybe let him know that your not yourself and as much as you love him your struggling to control your moods at the moment. He will understand its not your fault so dont blame yourself.

feel better soon :hug: :hug:
 
Oh hun Im a few weeks behind you and have days like you are experiencing.......I put it down to a new influx of hormones or something, as I have noticed as well as my mood, energy and just general self - my nails and hair look crappy (my nails were amazing half way through my pregnancy), so there are obviously changes happening again, as now my nails are all short and weak again, and my moods are not much better :) .

Like you I have had days when I havent bothered getting out of bed, and other days when I have cried and cried at the most ridiculous things!

Are you sleeping hun? I think thats a major factor for me at the moment - ie lack of sleep is effecting my daily life and energy levels as I can lie awake until gone 3am every night.

Hope you feel better soon and try not to worry Im presuming its all normal behaviour for this stage of pregnancy :hug:
 
I know how you feel.. ive got to the stage where i cant even be bothered to speak anymore! I havent really seen anyone apart from my OH so i dont even know if i have any social skills anymore! and as for the pooping and peeing?.. well regular poops is the story of my life and last night i couldnt stop peeing (i think baby has finally dropped!)

So... im right there with ya! It sucks!

:hug: Claire x
 
aww thanks girls, no im not sleeping too well, i can get to sleep at 3am then every little thing is waking me too, like i said even smells. LO has took a liking to waking at 4am for a glass of milk too, then sneaking in bed eventually pushing me out OH snoring dosnt help either :doh: hes working so hard too bless him. even if i wanted to staying in bed for the day just wouldnt be an option as DD is such a energetic little munchkin it would be impossible haha! to cheer me up i just edited a few pics and put them on the tummy thread :)
hope all you ladies feeling the same feel better soon big :hug: :hug: :hug: esp Nori.. your cheeky baby needs a speaking to! :lol: x
 
hope you feel a bit better soon hun, i know how you feel i cant be arsed to socialise i just wanna hybinate until bubs is out
 
Souynds normal and like you're getting close to the big day, buy yourself some chocolate :) Dark choc especially it has serotonin in it and will make you feel hap hap happy again!

x
 
i have a things for smells too, everyone here thinks im mad but i can smell the slightest little thing. Not too long now hun :hug:
 
awww hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: have some hugs.....

I'm starting to get irritable due to lack of sleep.......ratty ratty!!

hope you start to feel bit more normal soon....could just be hormones playing up :hug: :hug: :hug:
 

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