Ok so 9th month and still no baby and I am really sad today as af due in a day or two. I fee fat and dad as well. I actually put on weight since TTC instead of trying to lose it. I am making tomorrow a new day to start eating less and also keep TTC going but seriously I am losing hope every month. I am nearly 40 and feels like its never going to happen arghhh
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Feeling sooo down
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Sunflower1
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Don't see 40 as a cut off point - a lot of women are getting pregnant in their 40s now. The average is 6 months for conceiving so 9 months isn't out of the question although I know it's mega frustrating. x
Thanks sunflower I mean I also started to see beyond 40 but I just feel so tired already not anywhere near when I was 30 or before having my daughter. So I just want to get pregnant and move on. I also felt like giving up and moving on but can’t do that either. I really hope it will happen within a year
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I am month 17th and I have no babies. I know how you feel...it's misery x one million trillion billion.
We got to keep on keeping on
We got to keep on keeping on
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I can't compare as only been trying a short while but I know how it feels to be sad and frustrated. I feel very lonely with it sometimes. All you can do is keep doing what you are doing and we will all be here to listen and support. Lots of baby dust to you 
and if it helps my friend got pregnant at 42 and she thought she never would. Try not to feel too down though despite it all (easier said than done I know) we are here and understand xxx
and if it helps my friend got pregnant at 42 and she thought she never would. Try not to feel too down though despite it all (easier said than done I know) we are here and understand xxxThanks you all for replying back. I am due for my period today or tomorrow so emotions are running high. I also think it will happen eventually it’s just not knowing when and month is a long time to put all your hops in it to only crash again. It’s nice to have a place to talk about it as you know no one in real life can truly understand. People I confided into keep saying it will happen but they have no idea when they say don’t let it get to you. Anyway let’s hope 10th cycle will be my lucky one ☝️
