feeling so ratty!

[LucyAnn]

Yesterday was just such a testing day. was at my moms & felt real ill. So she came back to my place with me with her sausage dog . I am moving back with mom n dad till after the birth - i have two cats that we need to transport over too - didnt have the energy to bother to do this yest.

But mom had other ideas. It ended up with a sausage dog in a car while my mom captured one cat & was in the cat carrier & was running round the street for my other cat. I was left by the car with a dog scrathing my car interior & a mewoing cat and all my flat & front door was just wide open!. The sun was getting hotter, i had barely eaten and my blood just boiled - I ended up getting my cats back in the flat & all the stuff and saying forget it

My mom said i was making things hard which hurt me she said i seem to be going against anything people suggest but i still refused to give it another go. It would have been fine if she left the dog at home i was just too worked up and it upset her.

I love her dearly but its just so hard for me having to go to my mom n dads for support after birth & i cant help but think i should just stay at flat by myself as im going to be doing it all by myself anyway. Im finding it hard having to 'let them in' even though i know it will be lovely for them to have their grandchild there too and i love them millions i just feel like a lil kid now!

Im crying now. I just feel so worked up, stil feel real irritable which is odd but just dont wanna be a burden on mom n dad dont know if i can move in with them. it just feels to much stress this is the only set back we have had i just feel real odd again today xxxxx

 

[Lilelephant]

bless ya. Atleast it's done now xxx

 

[LucyAnn]

thanks bt never did it in the end i turned into a spoilt brat and got stubborn i just feel overwhelmed by everything thats gonna be happening this week bt so guilty about having words with my mom xxxx

 

[l_maclean]

If your finding the idea of moving stressful - could you possibly do it the other way round. Maybe ask your mum if she could stay with you for a few days after the birth till you get on your feet??

Explain that it might be easier for you and LO to get into a routine in your own house.
xxx

 

[Jaxx01]

Hey hun I completely sympathise...I am going through this all alone too and Im going to move in with mum when it's all happening as it looks like im gonna end up with a c section so will need the help.

If you wanna chat PM me I dont know the circumstances behind why you are alone but I do sympathise with you xxx

 

[LucyAnn]

If your finding the idea of moving stressful - could you possibly do it the other way round. Maybe ask your mum if she could stay with you for a few days after the birth till you get on your feet??

Explain that it might be easier for you and LO to get into a routine in your own house.
xxx

i really wish i could but only have a 1 bed flat me mom n dad have a 5 bed house its not that big but they have already got 1 room took up for babys big things in storage, moses baske, bath, bouncers etc and have made me up a room too. They have done everything like decorate early in the house so they dont have to do stuff when there hands are full with me and baby.

My dad has even arranged the drive of 3 cars and a big caravan he has pulled all the cars in a certain position so when im there i can come and go as i please and so can they so no one is disturbed etc thy have done everything they can so dont really feel like i can just pull out and i know im not gonna be mothered too much. Its just if ive gotta do it by myself lookig forward i should start from day 1. And i just am overwhelmed by there kindness. xxxxx

 

[l_maclean]

oh ok. Hate to blame them again - but maybe its the hormones - we can blame them for a lot - but maybe it'll all look better tomorrow.


xxx

 

[LucyAnn]

Hey hun I completely sympathise...I am going through this all alone too and Im going to move in with mum when it's all happening as it looks like im gonna end up with a c section so will need the help.

If you wanna chat PM me I dont know the circumstances behind why you are alone but I do sympathise with you xxx

Thankyou. Its so hard.I by no means want to be ungrateful to them but dont feel like i deserve the kindness. Shame you gotta have c-section.

My mom says even if im just there for just a couple of days after birth she says you naturally panic i.e is my baby breathing, is this normal is that? and that i would need rest so she is trying to reassure me to get me off to the best start of motherhood which is so lovely. and she wanted me moved in by now incase i go into labour or have pains contractions and get panicked etc.

I think i just feel its a huge stress for them to have me etc but its also a big deal to me and hard for me to come to terms with xxxx

 

[littlemiss83]

Your probs just feeling out of sorts coz your having to move into another house. Just think, when baby is born you wont notice all the little things, you really will just be glad to have that extra pair of hands, if you lived by yourself it would be a bit struggle to get things done with a newborn, at least your mum/dad can watch baby while you have a shower/get dressed in the morning/meet your friends? You could always arrange to move back into your own house a cpl of weeks down the line when you are in a better routine with baby.

 

[LucyAnn]

oh ok. Hate to blame them again - but maybe its the hormones - we can blame them for a lot - but maybe it'll all look better tomorrow.


xxx

Thankyou i hope it is too havent had a run in with them all through but the last couple days feel like a miserable grump fool and im sure this silly heat has a big part in me reaching boiling point quickly too. Im sure if we had tried to move me and cats in a few days ago i would have been more ok cus i felt ok in general then to just hope it passes going to have a day of doing nothing today see if thta helps xxxx

 

[LucyAnn]

Your probs just feeling out of sorts coz your having to move into another house. Just think, when baby is born you wont notice all the little things, you really will just be glad to have that extra pair of hands, if you lived by yourself it would be a bit struggle to get things done with a newborn, at least your mum/dad can watch baby while you have a shower/get dressed in the morning/meet your friends? You could always arrange to move back into your own house a cpl of weeks down the line when you are in a better routine with baby.

Thanks littlemiss yeah even mom and dad are happy for friends to visit there too which will be nice. Dunno whether its reality hitting me too but my stress levels are just sky high. Even panicking about car insurance renewel due and im on mat pay cant claim benefits till baby here and mat pay aint enough to cover my mortgage and things and then im thinking omg xmas soon money money money finding it hard to see things in bitesize chunks xxxx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

bless you hunny, its a big thing to do and hormones wouldnt of helped, we are all here if you need us x x

 

[littlemiss83]

I love the fact your mum has a sausage dog, i have always wanted one!!

Do you have any pics