I have gone so far backwards and things are worse than when she was born and now I am sitting here on the verge of tears, wondering what I am doing wrong. E used to be able to self settle and was getting into a bedtime routine where she would have her last feed at round 8:30pm and be asleep by 9pm. She would then sleep for between 10 - 12 hrs. Now I struggle to get her to bed before midnight most nights, she won't self settle and will wake as soon as she is placed in her crib. She will also only sleep for about 3 - 4 hrs now before waking. It took me 6 hrs to get her to bed after she woke at 2am last night. Tonight I have already tried 3 times to take her to bed but she wakes and screams till I pick her up. As I said, I don't know what I am doing wrong, but I feel like I'm failing. Sorry for the rant. It was either rant or cry my eyes out.