fed up!!!*tiny rantish*

[tattybear85]

Feeling really fed up and irritable today

I dont like being pregnant now i want it all over and done with im in agony no matter what i do

I want to have a night sleep without being in pain when trying to turn over

I hate staying in all day i cant even walk to the shop 5min walk

I cant keep my house tidy as it hurts to stand for more than a few mins

OH tells me to stop moaning and just get on with it...he thinks this is all a breeze!!!

And all i want to do is cry!!!!!

AAAARRRGGHHHHHHHHH!!!!

sorry to whinge just needed to let it out

 

[Tillytots]

I feel the same hun and so it must be twice the pain and crap for you If only the OH could be pregnant just for 5 mins then they'd shut up with the silly insensitive comments!

have some hugs

 

[monster_munch]

Chocolate and lots of it I think

 

[tattybear85]

thats what i say to him...its only a breeze to him because he doesnt have to do anything apart from think hes a stud for producing twins(even though that was my doing)

have some hugs too

 

[Babylicious]

I feel cr4p too, but nothing compared to you. Feet up and watch some trashy cr4p on tv and spoilt yourself with lots of yummy foods

 

[tattybear85]

At the moment Oliver has got hold of the remote and we have fireman sam on...i may send him packing upstairs to watch cbeebies in my room in a bit!

I also keep getting really painful BHs and really bad pushing down pain in my pelvis...think these 2 are fighting to the finish line 1st!!!!

 

[DebbieM]

I feel for you! Double what the rest of us get! Poor girl!

 

[debecca]

Awww poor you

OHs are so insensitive. Mine told me to stop being so negative last night. He'd be bloody negative if he couldn't sleep and he was lugging all this around - but then I guess it's twice as bad for you

Hope you feel better soon. On the plus side, you don't have as long to go as the rest of us!

 

[Nicola g]

Must be a day of feeling poo today

Ive also got hospital appt and two kids off school, so gonna ask mum to sit with them in the car whilst im in my appt.

Im gonna ask them if they have any cancellations in the section bookings and see if i can get in sooner

 

[tattybear85]

Awww poor you

OHs are so insensitive. Mine told me to stop being so negative last night. He'd be bloody negative if he couldn't sleep and he was lugging all this around - but then I guess it's twice as bad for you

Hope you feel better soon. On the plus side, you don't have as long to go as the rest of us!

i know not much longer less than 6weeks at the most hopfully things will get moving a little sooner and they will arrive ealry like Oliver did!!!!

 

[muppetmummy]

 

[Bloom]

Awwwww i also think you are in need of some chocolate.

I think its hard for men to understand what its like being pregnant, they can be so insensitive at times. Ive just finished work and i think my partner thinks that im around to run all the errands for him, i politly reminded him that the next few weeks are for me to spend doing what i want to do as im not used to having time off and soon i will have baby to look after 24/7 so i want some time for myself.

Just remember you are growing two babies in there and being a twin myself i know how lovely it is having a twin so im sure they will thank you when they can. Its a very special gift.

 

[tattybear85]

Awwwww i also think you are in need of some chocolate.

I think its hard for men to understand what its like being pregnant, they can be so insensitive at times. Ive just finished work and i think my partner thinks that im around to run all the errands for him, i politly reminded him that the next few weeks are for me to spend doing what i want to do as im not used to having time off and soon i will have baby to look after 24/7 so i want some time for myself.

Just remember you are growing two babies in there and being a twin myself i know how lovely it is having a twin so im sure they will thank you when they can. Its a very special gift.

have u got a twin sister or brother? i feel really blessed that im having twins and so far my pregnancy has gone pretty smoothly compaired to what the consultant has said....just getting harder in these last few weeks and i cant wait to meet them(and show them off!!!)

 

[Manda&Thomas]

aww hun i dread to think how hard it is for you im struggling and there is only 1 in me!!

manda xx

 

[Bee]

Hope u feel better soon!

Have a nice day relaxing - don't worry about anything else.

I am struggling too and I am still working - school is getting harder each day and by the end of the week I am so burnt out but don't get to rest at the weekend as I have 2 jobs

 

[jue]

Hope you feel a bit more positive soon

 

[debecca]

Bloom, you're so right. My OH has a list of tasks for me to do, my OU assignment is driving me up the wall, and to top it all off, work keep ringing with stuff for me to do - I'm supposed to be on ML!

No wonder we're not relaxed

 

[Bloom]

I have a twin sister Tatty and its lovely we are really close.

Bex thats really not on them ringing you i would unplug the phone or get one with caller id.

I keep on moaning and i have a small bump and only one baby so i cant even begin to imagine how hard it is for you and you have a little one already to look after. I hope you feel better soon but you are on the home straight now and the finish line is in sight.

 

[sarah113]

 

[kalia]

You guys are obviously far nicer to your OHs than I am!
I have forced him to wear a sling filled with weights up to what I think I am carrying. Sometimes I poke him in the side when baby kicks me in the side

He runs around after me trying to make sure I don't do too much. He does all the shopping, cooking (which has improved dramatically over the last 32 weeks!), washing up and cleaning. He runs baths for me when I'm in lots of pain so the water will make me feel better. He even fluffs my pillows So I think my methods are worth trying - they seem to work!

Bex - don't do anything for work. Next time they call say "I am on maternity leave" if they ask you to do anything. Repeat it when/if they keep trying to convince you or give you excuses for why they think you should do things. Don't even say no to them. You are not refusing. You are simply not currently employed to do any work for them at the moment.