Fed up, lonely and emotional

[kayzee]

Hi everyone, Just need to hav a moan and i know there are so many out there in the same boat. I am on my own expectin my 3rd as i have posted before ( why is everyone soooooooo negative) , The baby's dad had spoke to me and said that he wanted to be a part of this childs life and wud help as and when he cud and also that he wud like to be here for the birth ( no way!!!) I texted him today to remind him about the money and i cud buy some baby bits with it and wud he help me later on? After everything he said to me about wanting to be a part etc etc, he has now sed he cant and wont and that he doesnt want to have anything to do with the baby anymore Im in turmoil as i needed him to help me financially as im on my own with two near teenage sons, one of which who has aspergers syndrome and i receive disability for him. I cant work because of my sons condition and im registered as a carer for him so am fully relying on benefit. Im sooo upset cos he was gonna help and because his ex threatened him with not seeing his other 4 kids i feel like i been pushed under the carpet like a piece of dirt, He now wants nothing to do with me and i almost feel guilty about bringing this baby into the world knowing it will never see its dad or extended family. Anybody been through something similar who can offer any words of support would be very greatly appreciated, many thanks and take care, kaye.xxx xxx

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

im so sorry hun, u n ur baby deserve better than him

 

[lauramumof2]

Hiya,
Im so sorry to hear the situation you find yourself in. I dont really know what to say. The guy is a shit and isnt a man at all. I mean, how much truth is there in the ex with the 4 kids story.
You might not thinkit just now but you will cope. The strength will come from deep inside and when you are up there and coping you can look that shit in the face and say 'i dont need you'.

Take care (((hugs))))

laura

 

[mimi123434]

You can msn me anytime at all.

marie
x

 

[kayzee]

Thanks marie i have added you and also sarah and laura for your kind words, the 4 kids thing is the truth i have spoke to them and seen them on webcam via msn, but tbh i think he is jus trying to find a way out, i have let him think he has got away with it but when the baby is born, cos im on benefit he will automatically get screwed good and proper by the csa!! I will have the last laugh as far as he is concerned and a gorgeous, well loved and beautiful new baby to love and cherish and the sad twat will have nothing!! take care everyone, kaye.xx