~February & March Mummies and Babies~

[Sassyjane]

I love him, I really do, but sometimes I wonder what on earth possessed me to have him, does that make sense???
I feel absolutely crap saying that, but I just don't understand him etc..... Just feel like I'm not cut out for all this!!!
I'm soooo tired, and will have til 2:30pm on my own with him, and have had him all night and most of yesterday, Tris is next to useless when he is tired, I'm surviving on about 5 hours sleep in the last 48 hours!!! Xx


Colby Jacques Tired.com but very proud Mummy!!! Xx

 

[clairebear22]

Ladies it will get easier I promise!! They're so tiny and can only communicate by yelling.

Sassy don't feel guilty we've said the same about Harry! We were spolit having Jack first because he honestly was a fantastic baby! Ok he fed every 90mins fir months and woke twice a night for 9 months but he never ever cried and still doesn't now! Harry is never content longet than 5 mins on his own when he's awake and it's hard wirk!

You watch when out babies are 6 months and we're saying how much easier life is! X

 

[clairebear22]

And i've clearly forgotten how to spell?! lol x

 

[nicky1987]

Sassy that's how I feel this morning. Like I can't cope with it now!! I'm so tired that was our worst night yet - just couldn't get her back to sleep. Chris is up for work he's there till 5 so it's another long day again! Then when he gets home all she wants is feeding!!

 

[Vickyxx]

Also up again think i am growing used to the endless nights slowly now they aren't as hard but i am still shattered.

I know this stage won't last forever so as hard as it is i am trying not to be to down beat but i know i will still have my bad days.

 

[babybee]

Well I was utterly useless last night! I had some kind of stomach bug and was just being sick the whole time. My husband had to do night watch and feed her formula because I felt so bad. Still do but not sick anymore just weak.

 

[Sassyjane]

Get well soon babybee!!!

I'm so tired I can't think, he just fed again! My head is killing me xx


Colby Jacques Tired.com but very proud Mummy!!! Xx

 

[babybee]

What are these babies doing to us!!!!

 

[Sassyjane]

He has just covered me in sick x


Colby Jacques Tired.com but very proud Mummy!!! Xx

 

[HL28]

Hey sassy r u ok? Xxx

Babybee hope u feel better soon. Plenty of fluids. U should be ok to keep feeding when u can. Maybe that's what was wrong with lo? Xxx

 

[Sassyjane]

I'm not coping today!!!

Hl28, beau sounds like CJ, he has had manky, crusty eyes since birth, and he is being sick! Xx


Colby Jacques Tired.com but very proud Mummy!!! Xx

 

[Sassyjane]

He wants to play and I'm too tired and don't feel well xxx


Colby Jacques Tired.com but very proud Mummy!!! Xx

 

[diane]

Babybee hope youre ok my love! There has been a sickness bug going round here hope you're not too bad with it xxx

Sassy you're a great mum honestly you are. You always are here for advice on this thread and you practically do this all on your own! You are doing amazing hun xxx

I feel like a rubbish mummy, not because of lack of sleep and I feel SO grateful that she is touch wood such a good sleeper, but because she seems to get all these issues and I don't know why! I'm really concerned with these spots but she's feeding etc... I don't even have a thermometer what a bad mum I am!!! Plus the snow is really bad here and Paul works Saturday's so I'm stuck in again unless I can convince my dad to come see me.

Think we are all having a rubbish time of it last night/this morning. Let's hope for better days xxx

 

[nicky1987]

I feel rubbish because I've done something I said I never would because it frightens the life out of me and I don't want her getting into the habit of it!! She fell asleep just before 8 during a feed and I was so tired I fell asleep too. I was propped up in bed just with a little bit of cover on her! Thankfully I didn't move but god knows what would have happened of if I had of done! I'm just not a fan of co-sleeping so now feel dreadful about it!!

 

[MummyEdgar]

hi girls, god it feels like forever since I've been on here. William is two weeks 3 days now, and jesus its hard init!! breast feeding is going ok but he is feeding like a monster so im doing nothing but feeding, trying to get him to sleep and changing him! i just hope this is normal! lol

house bound cos im not allowed to drive for another couple of weeks but cant wait to get out n about again!

hope ur all well and ur babies are doing well ,

mummy edgar & william

 

[Drummers_wife]

We're all doing fab xx
sassy lil man is thriving you should be proud you get no help an are doing a fab job xx
Babybee massive hugs hun no fun when your poorly
Yeah its the nuby orthodontic dummies I bought yesterday he's not massively inyo it but does help occasionally at night xx

My mum an bf are going home today been lovely having them here xx im going back to Rhondda next week with him as its Charlie my nephews 1st birthday xx


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[HL28]

Nicky I co sleep all the time! Breastfeeding makes u very in tune with your baby. As soon as they move or anything you wake up I promise. Try not to worry about it. I get so much more rest by co sleeping and I love it. I feed on my side with her laying next to me and we both nod off. Don't worry hun xxx

 

[MummyEdgar]

Nicky, i felt the same about co-sleeping and have got two very different opinions on it from HV and MW and other mums and online info, we avoid it if possible and always try and put him back in his bed but i have done it a couple of times and it seems fine cos he doesnt move, i wake when he stirs and dispite me being a movey sleeper , i dont budge an inch. i dont think u fully sleep when ur doing it so your always aware of what they are doing, i wouldnt worry about it

 

[nicky1987]

Think jas might be having her 3 week growth spurt - she's really unsettled and feeding a lot. Also very clingy! Or is it a bit early at 17 days old? X

 

[3237rachel]

Sassy I can feel the same at times. It is so hard, you aren't alone I promise. People keep saying it gets easier and I don't know as my first but it has to. The lack of sleep makes it so much harder I am sure. No one copes with so little sleep. You just can not handle things as well.xx