****February 2019 Mamas****
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Got my baby shower tomorrow. I'm a little worried about my outfit again for my brothers wedding as I've been over eating quite a bit this week. How much weight can you noticeably gain in two weeks.... I don't know what I'll do if the dress doesn't fit.
I'll post another bump picture tomorrow when I'm ready for the baby shower
I've been forgetting to take them recently. Shame I've only just figured out how to post them as that probably would have reminded me to keep taking them. Oh well; I've had events on during this pregnancy which has meant I've got photos at different points which I didn't get with my last one. I avoided photos at all costs because I wasn't happy with how I looked. I was also pretty miserable because I was in an unhealthy relationship too which didn't help.
I'll post another bump picture tomorrow when I'm ready for the baby shower
I've been forgetting to take them recently. Shame I've only just figured out how to post them as that probably would have reminded me to keep taking them. Oh well; I've had events on during this pregnancy which has meant I've got photos at different points which I didn't get with my last one. I avoided photos at all costs because I wasn't happy with how I looked. I was also pretty miserable because I was in an unhealthy relationship too which didn't help.Donna I know exactly what you mean about not knowing what it will be like to go into labour. Like you, I was induced with my first, and with hyper stimulation of my uterus so it was from zero to full contractions with 15 minutes, so I'm really nervous about recognising a slower build up.....I know I will know, but it's giving me a lot of anxiety, mostly about making sure my little boy is looked after!
Yeah it's weird isn't it. Of course we'll know; but it's a strange feeling. Part of it is people expect you to know a lot more because it's not your first; but actually we didn't really experience it last time around.
When I first had my son I actually had a fear of going into labor naturally, I was worried about not having that safety net of being in the hospital and having the professionals around. I didn't think about it for a while but then when I got pregnant this time around I have more of a fear of being induced again, as I know my experience last time was a bad one.
We'll both be fine though
When I first had my son I actually had a fear of going into labor naturally, I was worried about not having that safety net of being in the hospital and having the professionals around. I didn't think about it for a while but then when I got pregnant this time around I have more of a fear of being induced again, as I know my experience last time was a bad one.
We'll both be fine though
My contractions also went from 0 to intense really quickly, I can't remember how quickly but basically they kept upping my drip as nothing was happening and then eventually checked my waters.
Apparently when I'd ripped them only my hind waters had gone!? Or something like that, so they had to break my waters properly. As soon as they did that the contractions suddenly just started hitting me
Apparently when I'd ripped them only my hind waters had gone!? Or something like that, so they had to break my waters properly. As soon as they did that the contractions suddenly just started hitting me
Hmm - other people do my head in.
Had a text from a friend last night saying she thinks my baby is going to be huge - weigh at least 10lbs and that I'm going to need to be buying 9-12 months straight away. WTF! In what universe do you think that's an acceptable thing to say to someone!? Especially when we take into account the fact that this person was really self conscious about the size of her own baby. I personally don't care as long as baby is healthy - but when you know someone is saying stuff like that at they mean it as a back handed comment it really winds me up. Like I said to my husband - what really worries me is when baby is here and she's making comments about her appearance because we know that will happen as she has form and again it's something she was self conscious about. It's just really going to upset me/wind me up. I can take comments about how big I am - they might annoy me but I'm a big girl and can cope, but comments about my baby are going to be off the cards.
Same as my sister commenting saying she thinks I'm going to be 2 weeks late or over, at the moment husband and I are completely chilled about when she arrives - she could arrive tomorrow or 4 weeks down the line for all we care, but the fact that we know that comment was made out of spite and her hoping I'd be late because she thinks I won't like it makes it a lot more hurtful and annoying.
I've had other people at work say I have a big bump, which I don't mind as I know that they don't mean it nastily and also at times my bump does look huge haha so even though we might joke and be like yeah you shouldn't say that - I know it's all coming from a good place. It's those comments that are said with a smile but I know there's a bit of venom behind them that really get me. Why are people like that!?
Anyway, baby shower today - partly looking forward to it, but also partly not as said friend is going to be there, so I'm gearing myself up for the look how big you are comments and baby is going to be huge comments.
Had a text from a friend last night saying she thinks my baby is going to be huge - weigh at least 10lbs and that I'm going to need to be buying 9-12 months straight away. WTF! In what universe do you think that's an acceptable thing to say to someone!? Especially when we take into account the fact that this person was really self conscious about the size of her own baby. I personally don't care as long as baby is healthy - but when you know someone is saying stuff like that at they mean it as a back handed comment it really winds me up. Like I said to my husband - what really worries me is when baby is here and she's making comments about her appearance because we know that will happen as she has form and again it's something she was self conscious about. It's just really going to upset me/wind me up. I can take comments about how big I am - they might annoy me but I'm a big girl and can cope, but comments about my baby are going to be off the cards.
Same as my sister commenting saying she thinks I'm going to be 2 weeks late or over, at the moment husband and I are completely chilled about when she arrives - she could arrive tomorrow or 4 weeks down the line for all we care, but the fact that we know that comment was made out of spite and her hoping I'd be late because she thinks I won't like it makes it a lot more hurtful and annoying.
I've had other people at work say I have a big bump, which I don't mind as I know that they don't mean it nastily and also at times my bump does look huge haha so even though we might joke and be like yeah you shouldn't say that - I know it's all coming from a good place. It's those comments that are said with a smile but I know there's a bit of venom behind them that really get me. Why are people like that!?
Anyway, baby shower today - partly looking forward to it, but also partly not as said friend is going to be there, so I'm gearing myself up for the look how big you are comments and baby is going to be huge comments.
Donna, have a wonderful time at your shower!
I really, truly do not understand how people can make such comments. Especially women who have children. You have to be so deeply insecure while at the same time be profoundly unaware of your own insecurities to the point where you truly have no concept of who you are or what you're saying. It is an incredibly frustrating, bizarre, and infuriating quality that, unfortunately, I see in many people. There is one mom at my daughter's school who I see often, and she is just overflowing with bizarre and unhelpful commentary. It used to blow my mind, but now it's like a game. What WILL she come up with next?!?
I guess the biggest consolation is the fact that YOU are not like that. It's truly excruciating being around people like that, but then they go home at the end of the day and they have to live their lives just BEING like that, and you don't. Let that ease your mind!
I am 39 weeks on Tuesday. It doesn't even compute. With all the reading I've done, and the discussions I've had with my midwife (who I trust completely), I would not feel comfortable going past 42 weeks, so I know I'll be induced by then. That is just 3 weeks, 3 days away. So I won't be pregnant longer than that.
I really, truly do not understand how people can make such comments. Especially women who have children. You have to be so deeply insecure while at the same time be profoundly unaware of your own insecurities to the point where you truly have no concept of who you are or what you're saying. It is an incredibly frustrating, bizarre, and infuriating quality that, unfortunately, I see in many people. There is one mom at my daughter's school who I see often, and she is just overflowing with bizarre and unhelpful commentary. It used to blow my mind, but now it's like a game. What WILL she come up with next?!?
I guess the biggest consolation is the fact that YOU are not like that. It's truly excruciating being around people like that, but then they go home at the end of the day and they have to live their lives just BEING like that, and you don't. Let that ease your mind!
I am 39 weeks on Tuesday. It doesn't even compute. With all the reading I've done, and the discussions I've had with my midwife (who I trust completely), I would not feel comfortable going past 42 weeks, so I know I'll be induced by then. That is just 3 weeks, 3 days away. So I won't be pregnant longer than that.
3 weeks and 3 days is nothing, that's crazy exciting.
My baby shower was amazing; loads of people came who had to travel quite a bit so I didn't expect to see which was lovely. I'm feeling very loved at the moment and it's just made me realise we need to make sure we keep in touch with all these people when we have the baby.
We didn't get any photos while out; which is partly a shame but we just enjoyed ourselves and tried getting around everyone. I got bump pictures before, I'll post them in a bit.
The one who annoyed me the other day was quite good to be fair and didn't say anything wrong, which was nice. In fact a few people commented saying how good I look.
My baby shower was amazing; loads of people came who had to travel quite a bit so I didn't expect to see which was lovely. I'm feeling very loved at the moment and it's just made me realise we need to make sure we keep in touch with all these people when we have the baby.
We didn't get any photos while out; which is partly a shame but we just enjoyed ourselves and tried getting around everyone. I got bump pictures before, I'll post them in a bit.
The one who annoyed me the other day was quite good to be fair and didn't say anything wrong, which was nice. In fact a few people commented saying how good I look.
I’m glad you had a lovely time Donna. It’s so nice when you get all the people around you and you realise how many people you actually have around you isn’t it.
I had my family one today, but found out this morning my mum couldn’t make it as my dad is really poorly. I spent from 8:30am crying my eyes out (been an overwhelming few weeks with a lot going on so think it all came pouring out) and only calmed down when my sister came at 12
0, had an hour to sort my face out so all pictures of my face have been banned as it is so puffy and bright red eyes.
The actual event was lovely once I got there though. xxx
I had my family one today, but found out this morning my mum couldn’t make it as my dad is really poorly. I spent from 8:30am crying my eyes out (been an overwhelming few weeks with a lot going on so think it all came pouring out) and only calmed down when my sister came at 12
0, had an hour to sort my face out so all pictures of my face have been banned as it is so puffy and bright red eyes. The actual event was lovely once I got there though. xxx
Oh no; I hope your dad is okay and you as well. Glad you had a lovely time.
My husband is just ready for baby to come now. He keeps saying oooh if she comes in the next 48 hours we'll be okay for the wedding still. Haha. It's like chill dude; let's just keep fingers crossed she arrives anytime after the wedding haha
My husband is just ready for baby to come now. He keeps saying oooh if she comes in the next 48 hours we'll be okay for the wedding still. Haha. It's like chill dude; let's just keep fingers crossed she arrives anytime after the wedding haha
Haha - I got pins and needles earlier and he thought I was having pains. Nope just been sitting on my leg.
Our friends were saying how when she went into labor she went downstairs at 2am because she'd felt it start and then woke her wife up with breakfast later on and told her it was happening (he arrived on their wedding anniversary) I was telling my husband how I think I'd wake him up, but whether I wanted to wake him up or not I would if I left the room because he sleeps so lightly now; I just have to go to the toilet and he's asking if I'm okay.
Our friends were saying how when she went into labor she went downstairs at 2am because she'd felt it start and then woke her wife up with breakfast later on and told her it was happening (he arrived on their wedding anniversary) I was telling my husband how I think I'd wake him up, but whether I wanted to wake him up or not I would if I left the room because he sleeps so lightly now; I just have to go to the toilet and he's asking if I'm okay.
I've had 3 different experiences of natural labour starting. They went like this:
The 1st was period cramping and regular mild contractions every few minutes, which quickly got stronger and had to breathe through them. Middle of night. Water didn't break til the end 4 hrs later.
The 2nd time I was asleep in bed and I felt what was like a balloon bursting in my tummy, which made me jump out if my sleep....then the water flooded the bed! The contractions were immediately strong after this.
The 3rd - Daisy! I felt a trickle of water at 7.30am, so I knew as I couldn't control it...I went to toilet to check, and yes it was pinky fluid! The water gradually leaked through morning more and more and contractions started up. Very mild to start with but quickly got stronger over the next few hours.
Babies sure like to take us by surprise! X
The 1st was period cramping and regular mild contractions every few minutes, which quickly got stronger and had to breathe through them. Middle of night. Water didn't break til the end 4 hrs later.
The 2nd time I was asleep in bed and I felt what was like a balloon bursting in my tummy, which made me jump out if my sleep....then the water flooded the bed! The contractions were immediately strong after this.
The 3rd - Daisy! I felt a trickle of water at 7.30am, so I knew as I couldn't control it...I went to toilet to check, and yes it was pinky fluid! The water gradually leaked through morning more and more and contractions started up. Very mild to start with but quickly got stronger over the next few hours.
Babies sure like to take us by surprise! X
That's very interesting to hear that you have had 3 very different experiences. Just shows how you never know what will happen.
Took the dog for a very short walk today and my legs were killing me after. We've been busy making sure we have everything packed for the wedding. Just a few bits I need to do but might do closer to the time because I can't be bothered. I need to add some stitches to husband's trousers, iron husband and sons shirts and pack the suits and dress in suit bags. Oh and I need to wrap their present and write on the card; we want to put some money in the card though and need to go to a cash point and get some out so will do that next time we go to the shop.
I had bad back ache last night and I also have been feeling a lot more pressure down below so wondering if she's starting to get engaged. I'm not 100% sure though it will be interesting to see what the midwife says on Wednesday
Took the dog for a very short walk today and my legs were killing me after. We've been busy making sure we have everything packed for the wedding. Just a few bits I need to do but might do closer to the time because I can't be bothered. I need to add some stitches to husband's trousers, iron husband and sons shirts and pack the suits and dress in suit bags. Oh and I need to wrap their present and write on the card; we want to put some money in the card though and need to go to a cash point and get some out so will do that next time we go to the shop.
I had bad back ache last night and I also have been feeling a lot more pressure down below so wondering if she's starting to get engaged. I'm not 100% sure though it will be interesting to see what the midwife says on Wednesday
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Hey ladies, hope you're all well and having a good weekend.
Donna you and your bump are looking beautiful
Today I seem to be in nesting mode, have been on all fours cleaning behind the toilet and sink, and I'm now giving my kitchen floor a proper scrub.
Our cot is made up with baby bedding, I just need to find something to put between the gap we have as it's right next to our bed for easy feeding at night.
Trying to keep myself busy this week, my husband and I are buying a new car which is exciting. Picking up our new Nissan X-Trail on Thursday, so can't wait to take it for a proper drive
Still house hunting but won't look to move until end of April I reckon, chatting with our landlord on Tuesday to let him know our long term plans.
What are you all doing at the moment?
Donna you and your bump are looking beautiful
Today I seem to be in nesting mode, have been on all fours cleaning behind the toilet and sink, and I'm now giving my kitchen floor a proper scrub.
Our cot is made up with baby bedding, I just need to find something to put between the gap we have as it's right next to our bed for easy feeding at night.
Trying to keep myself busy this week, my husband and I are buying a new car which is exciting. Picking up our new Nissan X-Trail on Thursday, so can't wait to take it for a proper drive
Still house hunting but won't look to move until end of April I reckon, chatting with our landlord on Tuesday to let him know our long term plans.
What are you all doing at the moment?
Oh Penny, I am so sorry about your dad. I hope he recovers quickly. That is so hard, I'd be crying all day too!
Donna oh my gosh you look soooo gorgeous! And so young! Am I the oldest here? I'm 36... anyway have a great time at the wedding! Can't wait to hear all about it.
Puglover, I love hearing about the ways your labors started! In a way it was easier when my water broke first (only happened with my first) because I knew for sure she was on her way. My second and third left me guessing for a while. But once it really kicked in there was no question! The problem was my second went from early/erratic labor for almost a day to SUDDENLY I was in transition and barely made it to the hospital! Got there 9 mins before he was born!
Phillipa, yep that's some classic nesting for sure! How's the SPD? So exciting about the new car! And I meant to comment on your beautiful bump a few pages back - you carry this baby so well!
I am 38+5 today, it's exactly 8 months since my BFP. I know I keep saying it but I just cannot believe how fast it's gone. I am excited to get to Tuesday so I know I have max 3 weeks left. Yesterday I was miserable, I hit that wall of exhaustion, when I was reading to the kids on the sofa I was literally slurring my words and trying not to doze off! That literally NEVER happens to me unless I'm a few weeks away from having a baby. I hate that feeling, of being just overcome by sleep. And the younger kids and I dozed off on the sofa, so my son was up until almost 11pm! And he only slept like 10 mins!
Donna oh my gosh you look soooo gorgeous! And so young! Am I the oldest here? I'm 36... anyway have a great time at the wedding! Can't wait to hear all about it.
Puglover, I love hearing about the ways your labors started! In a way it was easier when my water broke first (only happened with my first) because I knew for sure she was on her way. My second and third left me guessing for a while. But once it really kicked in there was no question! The problem was my second went from early/erratic labor for almost a day to SUDDENLY I was in transition and barely made it to the hospital! Got there 9 mins before he was born!
Phillipa, yep that's some classic nesting for sure! How's the SPD? So exciting about the new car! And I meant to comment on your beautiful bump a few pages back - you carry this baby so well!
I am 38+5 today, it's exactly 8 months since my BFP. I know I keep saying it but I just cannot believe how fast it's gone. I am excited to get to Tuesday so I know I have max 3 weeks left. Yesterday I was miserable, I hit that wall of exhaustion, when I was reading to the kids on the sofa I was literally slurring my words and trying not to doze off! That literally NEVER happens to me unless I'm a few weeks away from having a baby. I hate that feeling, of being just overcome by sleep. And the younger kids and I dozed off on the sofa, so my son was up until almost 11pm! And he only slept like 10 mins!
Oh you're so sweet Kholl, I'm 30. I don't feel like I'm young at the moment haha. I think yesterday took it out of me; also I felt hungover this morning but I think it's from not drinking enough water yesterday.
I've just stuck some flapjack in the oven as I felt really bad yesterday, we baked some rocky road and bought cupcakes for the baby shower - completely forgetting we had two vegans coming. So I bought some vegan Tiffin for them as we couldn't find cupcakes in the shop on our way home and I'm baking the flapjack so I can take it into work. They weren't bothered at all; they're really easy going I just feel bad that I didn't cater for them.
I love hearing about different labour stories and how they started too. It's all very interesting isn't it.
Hopefully this one will appear a little earlier for you than the others have.
I've just stuck some flapjack in the oven as I felt really bad yesterday, we baked some rocky road and bought cupcakes for the baby shower - completely forgetting we had two vegans coming. So I bought some vegan Tiffin for them as we couldn't find cupcakes in the shop on our way home and I'm baking the flapjack so I can take it into work. They weren't bothered at all; they're really easy going I just feel bad that I didn't cater for them.
I love hearing about different labour stories and how they started too. It's all very interesting isn't it.
Hopefully this one will appear a little earlier for you than the others have.
Thanks, Donna - I hope this one comes earlier than the others, too! Or at least as early as my son did... he was 2 days early, which feels like a dream. That would mean this baby comes on Super Bowl Sunday (I know that's not a thing for you, but it sure is here haha), which is February 3rd. My favorite midwife is on shift that night so I'm trying to hyper-focus on that date. Which I'm sure means it won't happen...!
30 is definitely young. And I was vegan for 5 years and it definitely never, ever bothered me if there weren't vegan-friendly things at events or parties. I never expected it. I usually ate before I went anywhere, unless it was a vegan-specific event! Or the people made a big fuss over making vegan stuff for me. Or I brought my own
30 is definitely young. And I was vegan for 5 years and it definitely never, ever bothered me if there weren't vegan-friendly things at events or parties. I never expected it. I usually ate before I went anywhere, unless it was a vegan-specific event! Or the people made a big fuss over making vegan stuff for me. Or I brought my own
