Wow! cannot believe all of a sudden i am 12 weeks it felt like an age away at first but has passed so quickly!! Got my scan on Tuesday so am keeping all crossed for then.
the only thing thats happend is we told immediate family.. .like my parents, bro and sis, and OHs mum bro and sis.... we have my OH's aunty look after our LO one day a week to help us out. Anyways she came last tuesday and asked my OH if i was preggers he said yes, but dont say nothing as we had only told immediate family... she went mental at us.... saying "after all she had done for us how could we exclude her, we had been so out of order, this was the lousiest day of her life" and when i got in from work she laid into me again and then stormed out.
needless to say when i told OH he was livid, and the last week has been horrific... his mum agrees with us as she also copped an earful fro mhis aunty!?!?
OH's sister jus came over and was saying we were being out of order to his aunty....
am so scared its gna split the family!! but as far as we were concerned we were gna tell her this tuesday when we got back from my scan... she would have been the first other family member to know... i cant see why she cant just be happy for us!!!!
Grrrrrrrrr!!! interfearing old woman... or am i wrong???
the only thing thats happend is we told immediate family.. .like my parents, bro and sis, and OHs mum bro and sis.... we have my OH's aunty look after our LO one day a week to help us out. Anyways she came last tuesday and asked my OH if i was preggers he said yes, but dont say nothing as we had only told immediate family... she went mental at us.... saying "after all she had done for us how could we exclude her, we had been so out of order, this was the lousiest day of her life" and when i got in from work she laid into me again and then stormed out.
needless to say when i told OH he was livid, and the last week has been horrific... his mum agrees with us as she also copped an earful fro mhis aunty!?!?
OH's sister jus came over and was saying we were being out of order to his aunty....
am so scared its gna split the family!! but as far as we were concerned we were gna tell her this tuesday when we got back from my scan... she would have been the first other family member to know... i cant see why she cant just be happy for us!!!!
Grrrrrrrrr!!! interfearing old woman... or am i wrong???