johnson1994
Member
- Joined
- Jun 4, 2011
- Messages
- 12
- Reaction score
- 0
hey, my first post on here. been searching on google for help trying to deal with the loss of my little girl x. we are 16 and have been together for over 2 years now, its been 3 months now and it still feels like it was only last night when it happened. just the text from my fiance saying that she woken up covered in blood with a pile of jelly that would have been our little baby. we was just kept refusing to believe it had really happened. we was so heartbroken. months before we had talked so much about her even though she wasnt even pregnant, we just talked for hours about all the things we'd get to do, it had brought us so close together nothing would had managed to pull us apart. everything was going fine till it came to having to tell my mum and dad about that she is pregnant, they absolutly hate the idea of teenagers being pregnant its the worse posssible thing we can do. they tried so hard to convince me to give up our baby, for hours they made me sit and listen to them keep having ago at me, calling me names, saying how much of a disappointment i was, they was even refusing to let me see my fiance and our baby. i knew for sure that i wouldnt be getting any help from them. im terrible when it comes to standing up against my parents, mum always know how to make me crack up so after hours of torture i ran off to my room and locked it behind me, texting my fiance asking her for help.
this caused us alot of stress and with my fiance having epilepsy didnt help her to well with her fits, we where booked in to see doctor a few days after the mc to have her medication changed to a safer one for the baby and get any other advise we could, but that got cancelled we had no idea how far along she was but she did have a small bump developing. we never got chance to even see her.
we really need some advise on coping with this. we are struggling to talk about it or anything related to babies. we are both majorly depressed and are not sleeping to well. we are often having pointless arguement over nothing, not serious (yet anyway). so any help would be most welcome.
thank you in advance
sorry if some of this dont mmake sense, like i said im not sleeping to well so some of it might be iffy
this caused us alot of stress and with my fiance having epilepsy didnt help her to well with her fits, we where booked in to see doctor a few days after the mc to have her medication changed to a safer one for the baby and get any other advise we could, but that got cancelled we had no idea how far along she was but she did have a small bump developing. we never got chance to even see her.
we really need some advise on coping with this. we are struggling to talk about it or anything related to babies. we are both majorly depressed and are not sleeping to well. we are often having pointless arguement over nothing, not serious (yet anyway). so any help would be most welcome.
thank you in advance
sorry if some of this dont mmake sense, like i said im not sleeping to well so some of it might be iffy
Last edited: