Kitten1991
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Hi,
I am 12weeks pregnant, me and baby's dad broke up around a month and half ago... he started to see someone new and denied it a couple of weeks ago... then out of the blue they are in a relationship on Facebook... i hate liars and people lying to me so i blocked him off social media and on my phone (don't know if it was the right thing to do)
We broke up because he persistently was asking me to move away from my town 45 mins away to where he lives... i spoke to my midwife about it and she said i did the right thing by putting my foot down and putting mine and baby's health first.
He then said he understood and would look for jobs local to myself as his family also live in town.
A week later he rang me up and said that he had decided to stay where he was, and from there the relationship deteriorated until he suggested we break up.
Today he called my mum and asked to speak to me and i'd already said i didn't want to speak with him. He then said he is going to take me to court over everything?
I know for certain in the last 3/4 years he has been with so many women he can't even count how many... he does drugs and drinks excessively... i don't particularly want him to have anything to do with the child now we aren't together out of fear of the childs safety around him especially if he is intoxicated? (Just want to note i do not do drugs... and only had the odd glass of wine)
I appreciate any advice as i am rather upset and stressed...
I am 12weeks pregnant, me and baby's dad broke up around a month and half ago... he started to see someone new and denied it a couple of weeks ago... then out of the blue they are in a relationship on Facebook... i hate liars and people lying to me so i blocked him off social media and on my phone (don't know if it was the right thing to do)
We broke up because he persistently was asking me to move away from my town 45 mins away to where he lives... i spoke to my midwife about it and she said i did the right thing by putting my foot down and putting mine and baby's health first.
He then said he understood and would look for jobs local to myself as his family also live in town.
A week later he rang me up and said that he had decided to stay where he was, and from there the relationship deteriorated until he suggested we break up.
Today he called my mum and asked to speak to me and i'd already said i didn't want to speak with him. He then said he is going to take me to court over everything?
I know for certain in the last 3/4 years he has been with so many women he can't even count how many... he does drugs and drinks excessively... i don't particularly want him to have anything to do with the child now we aren't together out of fear of the childs safety around him especially if he is intoxicated? (Just want to note i do not do drugs... and only had the odd glass of wine)
I appreciate any advice as i am rather upset and stressed...