Everyone else is pregnant

[Sunflower1]

Tell me about it. On Wednesday I went to a baby shower for someone who fell pregnant whilst taking the pill! Wish it was just that easy for the rest of us

That's nuts! Maybe some people are more fertile...or luckier?

 

[Maximus17]

yeah more fertile I think and luckier, my grandma used to say even if he comes near me I get pregnant lol (she was pregnant 4 times), but on a more positive note for us, when we have a baby we will appropriate it more, and be grateful for having a baby. People that get pregnant quickly have no idea how lucky they are

 

[WinterWolf]

I'm sorry you feel alone Sunflower. It's hard. Most people around you won't have gotten pregnant as easily as you think though. People don't tend to talk about how long they've been trying. I know some couples play it down like they weren't really trying and it "just happened", when in reality they'd been trying for a while. I don't have any advice for coping with the jealousy but I hope you get your rainbow baby soon x

Max - that woman who took the morning after pill, is her baby ok? That's shocking that someone can be so fertile lol

 

[Maximus17]

Yes she said the baby is good and all ok, Imagine the odds though, I can't even get pregnant with unprotected sex for months and months. I feel like my body is very good at protecting me from sperm , kills them all before they even get a change of reaching the egg lol

and you are right, we have no idea how long some people have been trying for. When I was at my NCT gorup 5 years ago, some of the girls shared their struggles, there were 2 of them with lots of miscarriages and years of trying and they were young too. But than it just happens quickly for some people, we just don't know do we...

 

[maythe4thbewit]

Yes she said the baby is good and all ok, Imagine the odds though, I can't even get pregnant with unprotected sex for months and months. I feel like my body is very good at protecting me from sperm , kills them all before they even get a change of reaching the egg lol

and you are right, we have no idea how long some people have been trying for. When I was at my NCT gorup 5 years ago, some of the girls shared their struggles, there were 2 of them with lots of miscarriages and years of trying and they were young too. But than it just happens quickly for some people, we just don't know do we...

The odds of that are ridiculous, makes me just want to scream in frustration! I knpw how you feep. Its been six years this month and its just so frustrating x

 

[Sunflower1]

I'm sorry you feel alone Sunflower. It's hard. Most people around you won't have gotten pregnant as easily as you think though. People don't tend to talk about how long they've been trying. I know some couples play it down like they weren't really trying and it "just happened", when in reality they'd been trying for a while. I don't have any advice for coping with the jealousy but I hope you get your rainbow baby soon x

Max - that woman who took the morning after pill, is her baby ok? That's shocking that someone can be so fertile lol

You might be right, but everyone who has told me has said they were surprised that they got pregnant first, second or third time, even women in their late 30s and people who weren't charting or doing opks or anything. x

 

[Sunflower1]

Yes she said the baby is good and all ok, Imagine the odds though, I can't even get pregnant with unprotected sex for months and months. I feel like my body is very good at protecting me from sperm , kills them all before they even get a change of reaching the egg lol

and you are right, we have no idea how long some people have been trying for. When I was at my NCT gorup 5 years ago, some of the girls shared their struggles, there were 2 of them with lots of miscarriages and years of trying and they were young too. But than it just happens quickly for some people, we just don't know do we...

It might not be your body...it could be his sperm. You are right that we will appreciate a baby more though. If it happens I will be over the moon.

 

[Sparky Mum]

Sunflower I am sending you so much baby dust

 

[Vintageling]

I know exactly how you feel hun my Facebook is full of pregnancy and birth announcements and I was really starting to feel so resentful but happy for my friends feeling abit better with it now we are ttc.

 

[Sparky Mum]

It's awful how many one night stands result in a pregnancy yet good, strong couples struggle to concieve.
It breaks my heart.

 

[Vintageling]

It's awful how many one night stands result in a pregnancy yet good, strong couples struggle to concieve.
It breaks my heart.

Me and my oh were literally just talking about this this morning.
He thinks it's due to hormones that the time the woman has the one night stand she is more open to it beucase she's in her fertile window lol he mainly get a his evidence from me as we realised once I started charting that I'm awful when I'm in the window and can't keep my hands off him lol. I've waited years and I mean years I've been broody since I was about 17 I'm now 28 and finally found mr right to do it with

 

[Sunflower1]

Thank you lovelies. Feel like I may have solved a fertility issue this month - been on some version of low carb for years, and this month ate more carbs and had much much heavier AF....am hoping that I'm now in a better state to conceive.

 

[Vintageling]

Got everything crossed for you hun and sending lots of baby dust

 

[Barley]

Argh, feeling like this too
I’m happy for other people but it still leaves a heavy feeling in me I can’t shake. My fiancé’s been away for 10 days (in the tww) and I was really hoping I’d be able to surprise him with a BFP when he gets home tomorrow. Not happening

 

[Sunflower1]

Argh, feeling like this too
I’m happy for other people but it still leaves a heavy feeling in me I can’t shake. My fiancé’s been away for 10 days (in the tww) and I was really hoping I’d be able to surprise him with a BFP when he gets home tomorrow. Not happening

Sorry Barley...really hope it happens for you soon x

 

[Sunflower1]

Got everything crossed for you hun and sending lots of baby dust

Thank you. You too xx

 

[Sparky Mum]

All we can do is keep trying and keep supporting each other