I was always against having one.... wanted a very natural birth, being able to feel contractions and urge to push etc. But when it came to it and I had been pushing for 2 hours and awake for nearly 3 days I needed the break!!
I had an epidural where I could feel my legs and the contractions, just took the edge off - I didn't even know you could do this tbh! Learnt something new, as did my mum and partner.
Then this was upped as things got worse.... was a very strange feeling not being able to feel my legs and the actual feeling of pushing George out was different than what I expected. It took all the pain away and the pressure sensation was enormous.
I think some people get bogged down with being a 'supermum' during labour, thinking they get some kind of medal at the end.
If you need/want one... have one! My midwife kept saying 'you don't get brownie points love!' lol xxx