I have always been honest with my OH that I want children and want to be a young mum so would like them before I am 25, im 24 next year and still have 1 and 1/2 years of my loan to pay off so wont be doing that, but would like to start trying when loan is paid off, he has always said he does want kids just not yet which was fine when I didnt want kids for years either. But friday night we had kind of a row and he said he wanted to have the snip because of contraception problems we are having, I said to him you know I want kids, you obviously dont want them at all and have been lying to me all this time telling me what you think I want to hear! He answered he would have kids to keep me but didnt actually want them and then it wouldnt be for years yet!
I feel lied too and upset that we want such different things I dont want someone to do something as important as having children when they dont want too just to keep me, and I want a daddy for my kids who wants to be a big part of their lives and wont resent them!!!
We're ment to be getting married next xmas and I cant help worrying if he's just doing that to keep me too as when we met he was adament he would never get married!
Not sure theres an answer, I love him and dont want to be without him just needed to rant really
I feel lied too and upset that we want such different things I dont want someone to do something as important as having children when they dont want too just to keep me, and I want a daddy for my kids who wants to be a big part of their lives and wont resent them!!!
We're ment to be getting married next xmas and I cant help worrying if he's just doing that to keep me too as when we met he was adament he would never get married!
Not sure theres an answer, I love him and dont want to be without him just needed to rant really