Hi I've come on here to ask for advice about my relationship as I just don't know what to do. Over the weekend I accidentally saw a message on my husband's work email from a young woman. Whilst the content wasn't particularly flirty (apart from calling him cheeky and putting 4 kisses at the end) I felt a bit uneasy about it and so I looked on Facebook and it seems they're friends. I decided to ask him about her and was told it's someone he knew years ago and she lives abroad now. I asked if they are ever in contact and he said yes (as it was obvious I knew anyway!) I asked how long they've been messaging each other and he said a couple of months. I thought it strange that he has never mentioned this person before and asked to see the messages. He refused and said they had all been deleted including the ones he had sent her. I then asked if he also deletes all the messages he sends me from work and he said yes. Again I asked him to show me that was the case and then he got annoyed and said he'd had enough and it's one thing after another with me. I admit since having our daughter 15 months ago I really struggled at first and we haven't been getting on well lately. I keep asking him about these messages but he refuses to say any more about it and that it's innocent. He said he would show me next time he gets a message from her but I'm just still not happy about it and think there's more to it but he won't say. Does this sound like I'm being paranoid or would anyone else be suspicious? Thanks for reading xxx