Do you think the old saying is true...

[lea m]

I think it depends on the person and the situation!
I would never cheat! Its just not in me kwim?
My OH cheated on me for a long time! He was a drug user and now he isnt, I dont think there is a chance in hell he would do it again!
His personality is completely different!
My mams ex was a cheater! He cheated on my mam with one women, married her, now he cheats on her repeatedly too! he will never change!
My dad was a cheater too! lol He cheated on my mam, then on his other GF but now, I think hes met the "right person" and I dont think he would even think of cheating!
People and situations vary so much!

 

[*pud01*]

sorry but i really do believe the old saying,
For someone to go out and cheat on you they obviously have no respect for your feelings.
I couldn't stay with my boyfriend if I discovered he had cheated, not only what i mentioned previously but i would drive my self mad constantly 2nd guessing what he has been up to it wouldnt be a life, and who's to say in the future I wouldnt cheat just to get revenge...
no if my boyfriend cheated he's a goner and id expect to be if i did.
also drink/drugs are no excuse for it.
rant rant rant
LOL

 

[fran_23]

i said no because my OH and i have been together 4 yrs i took him back
after he kissed someone else then when i broke up with him because of that he went out with someone else for a month-

what he did was completely out of character and i'm not excusing him in the slightest but we were going through a really hard time and had a new baby- i truly believe he is sorry and will not do it again-

i have cheated on someone before and i would never do it again so i dont think its a case of once a cheater always a cheater!

 

[Red_Fairy]

Ive cheated on past boyfriends, when i was very young.
Ive grown up alot now and would never ever cheat on OH. I cheated on my first love, and i regretted it terrible, i realised how much pain i caused (to ex and my self) and what an evil cow i could be. The relationship never survied my behaviour- which i think is good.. i learned a lesson.

Ive deffinatly changed now, even family and friends say ive matured and grown up ALOT over that 3 or so years. Id hate to think cos of mistakes i made when i was young would be held against me now.

Everyone CAN change.

 

[trixipaws]

NO!! once a cheater, NOT ALWAYS a cheater!

i cheated on my ex-boyf when i was 17. not just that, but it was in his MUM'S house, while my ex was sleeping- and the other guy was his BEST FRIEND who was ENGAGED! i was as low as u can get i think!

but this relationship iv been in since i was 19 (8 years) and NEVER cheated on him. we've both fooled around with other women but infront of each other and consenting each other so thats not cheating (cheating is going behind someones back)

he too cheated on all his ex's (except one, the "Proper" one before me not the rebound inbetween me and her) but he hasnt cheated on me

 

[Slinky Sarah]

In ym experience, once a cheater always a cheater unfortunatly.
My first boyfriend cheated on me 3 times before i realised he would never change, second boyfriend cheated on me and when he left me for her wanted to cheaat on her with me! And my ex cheated on me (found out after). I really must have had one of them faces lol.
I know my OH now would NEVER EVER cheat on me. Its not the person he is, as am I. It has never entered my head in any of my relationships. I would rather be straight with the person and say look im not happy or whatever and leave that hurt them more by cheating on them. Me and OH both know how much it hurts so I also think that has to do with it too...Even though i know he has been broguht up to respect and treat women right (which he really does...hes a true gent *gush* *gush* )

I honestly would be very suprised if my ex's didnt cheat on there new partners now tbh....hope im wrong for their sakes though

 

[Craig]

Hmmm... thanks for the opinions you lot... much appreciated

Im a bit of a hypocrit i guess... as i feel like ive changed myself (have cheated in the past, but wouldnt dream of it again)... but in the same vein i dont believe just anyone can change always think that alot of people who claimed to have changed are hiding behind lies and never can... hm.