• Xenforo Cloud upgraded our forum to XenForo version 2.3.4. This update has created styling issues to our current templates. We will continue to work on clearing up these issues for the next few days, but please report any other issues you may experience so we can look into. Thanks for your patience and understanding.

Do I have reason to be angry?

If it was me i'd feel upset. But i am sensitive like that. But saying that she does sound young and like she looks up to him a bit, probaly cos hes got his life sorted with gf and kid.
 
I can understand why you might feel like that. Tbh, there is nothing wrong with her putting kisses at the end of texts or texting him.

My OH's friends ex girlfriend keeps on texting my OH and informing him of every little thing going on in her life. it did annoy me a bit, but I just realised she is in a difficult situation, doesn't have many friends and wants someone to talk to.

Sounds like this girl looks up to your OH and she hasn't technically done anything wrong. Sorry if I am being a bit harsh or anything, I just think it doesn't seem like she is flirting, as you said yourself the texts were innocent and the fact she puts kisses at the end really does mean nothing.
 
Fair enough. I don't think I made it clear how I do sympathise with you and would feel the same as you. I spose its just gathering some sense of reality on the situation. About the kisses thing, I mean some people do really just do that on their texts to everyone. I personally wouldn't but its only a letter at the end of a text ultimately, right?
 
my boyf's got loadsa female mates on his fone or online who send kisses and flirt etc- im used to it! most often i feel ok bout it but i do have my insecure moments when it bothers me but i try not to do anything and tell myself its harmless- from what u write sounds like he loves u and thats all that matters, its good that he dont feel he gotta hide his fone from u that tells u summat :hug: :hug:

ETA: i put kisses on the end of all my texts- male frends who are married/have girlfs, female friends, gay friends, family- for me its just a nicety! i hope no-one's partners see me as a threat coz im not! its the same back, if i get no kisses after texts i think im in the dog-house!
 
Kitten_sox said:
There is a girl at my OH's work who always texts him and puts kisses on the end. The texts are always innocent and he's not bothered about me seeing because I have no doubt that nothing is going on, but I find it really disrespectful that she does it. She's met me and Caitie before and even bought stuff for us when I was pregnant.
My OH has told me that she's notorious for flirting and only talking to the lads at work, and she often comes to him for relationship advice. She sounds alot like me when I was 19, which is how old she is, so I know what she's playing at (or I think I do).
Me and OH had an arguement about it last night and he said if I found it so annoying why don't I ring her and tell her to back off...but I feel like he should tell her to :wall:
If you were in the same situation how would you feel, and what would you do? Thanks for reading :hug:

well it depends..has he ever given you reason to doubt him??
i mean we all get jealous sometimes i actually am in the same situation as you right now- but me and my OH have had problems before.
before all that happened this wouldn't have bothered me half as much!
it all sounds very innocent hun but i see why your annoyed esp when he says you ahould ring her and tell her- why do they want us to look mental? like we wait around with the rolling pin to check there phones or something! the advice i give to you is the advice i give to myself at this time- i told him how i feel he said theres nothing in it- and i know there isn't really sometimes i just feel jealous esp if i'm a bit pre-menstrual..so i'm gonna relax and let it go-( i'll be watching that bitch though- i know what girls can be like!!) hope its all ok xx :hug: :hug:
 

Users who are viewing this thread

Members online

No members online now.

Forum statistics

Threads
473,590
Messages
4,654,706
Members
110,068
Latest member
bluesheep
Back
Top