i'm in a dilema... in an ideal world! i'd come off the pill august after our july holiday, monitor my periods till december then when i come back from my big trip to NY with the girls i'd start trying and fingers crossed get my BFP at the start of Jan... but i don't know how to get a membership to this ideal world... If i became pregnant Jan next year... all my loans etc would be finished off the september the baby would be due! meaning i could afford to take full 9 months off maternity and then even consider going back to work 3 days a week... but say i don't get pregnant in the Jan.. i'm 34 this year (can't hold back the years) so i thought i'll come off the pill now... whats a few extra months but say i do get pregnant straight away... i'd be 9 months in Dec... what about my big trip to NY i've been waiting for all my life... and cost me a bloody fortune! what should i do? if i got pregnant after my july holiday i'd be 5 months pregnant going to NY... i'm sure i'd be able to fly, wouldn't i?
I know i'm stressing over something stupid but it's a time thing with me... i'm not getting any younger.
any advise?
I know i'm stressing over something stupid but it's a time thing with me... i'm not getting any younger.
any advise?