Sounds like you are doing a great job so far. We also had issues with Layla going through the night but the key is (we found) to be firm and consistent but fair. If she cries now I leave her for 10mins-15mins and then if she's still hysterical I go into her room and lay her back down, shhhhhh, and stroke her but I by no means pick her up, talk to her or interact with her...basically I don't give her any attention. Once she stops crying I leave the room and basically keep repeating this until she goes to sleep. At first it took up to an hour or even more but once she learnt that I wasn't going to pick her up she has stopped...I actually can't believe it myself! Can I also suggest some type of distraction, I bought Layla a cot music toy that projects an image on the ceiling and plays lullaby music. I put it on when I first put her down and she now associates it with bed time and automatically settles. She often doesn't go straight off to sleep but instead of now screaming and standing up etc she just happily babbles to herself until she drops off. Now she goes to sleep within about 10mins of going to bed Yes she does still wake occasionally in the night but instead of taking hrs to go back to sleep a quick "shhhhhh", a reassuring stroke and occasionally some lullaby music she goes straight back to sleep.