Decision time...

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Well ladies....

As some of you know...I got enagaged at the weekend....yipppeeee!!! Still hasn't quite sunk in yet,,,

We have also booked the wedding for the 25th November next year!!!! :)

So because of this......gonna make this month my last month of actively ttc! I am not going to go back on the pill or anything, as I want my body to get back to normal, we are just gonna try and not do it right at ov time...or get OH to use withdrawal method...wish me luck with that one! ha ha

At the end of the day, if it happens it happens but I thought we would actively start trying again around May/June time as then I would be abouy 6 months when got married...which would be okay. We don't want to put it off completely til after we are married but I don't want to be due around wedding or have just had bambino......

So fingers crossed, by the time May/June time comes I will have been off the pill for about 8 months and my body should be all nice and back to normal......for some good old baby making...

Gonna stay on here though to keep in with the gossip and chats....so you don't get rid of me that easily.

xxx
 
Oh bless you, sounds like an excellent plan though & well thought out to
You never know, as your be more relaxed & not actively trying, your BFP may just come & get you :)
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congrats on setting a date, u must be soo excited, i agree good plan, and BFP might just turn up unexpected like kezza said! xx
 
yep....it will be just my luck i will be walking down the aisle 38 weeks pregnant!! ha ha xx
 
Congrats on your wedding date. Sounds like youve made a sound decision on waiting etc but I bet you will still be wishing for a BFP ;) lol xx
 
congrats!! hehe u can stayin the WTT section!! hope ur pg alredi lol xx!!
 
Congratulations on setting a date hunny. It sounds like a good plan and how lovely would it be for you to be 5/6 month pg on your wedding day x x


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Haha, you're just like me - booked the wedding as soon as you got engaged :)

I was engaged in Jan and married in September :good:

I completely agree with you putting off the ttc too, although i'd personally not ttc again until the wedding is gone.

It depends what kind of wedding you want, but if you are in Tri1 you could be puking and feeling like crap or if you are Tri2 your belly will be growing so fast that it'll be impossible to pick a proper wedding dress in advance or if you are Tri3 you might pop at any moment :shock:

Conceiving on your wedding night or on the honeymoon is so romantic :love: I think it was Jodie that managed that one - gosh that feels like forever ago :oooo:
 
yep Louise....engaged Saturday.....wedding booked today! he he.....spoke to wedding co-ordinatpr last night....i don't mess about!! ha ha xx
 
I think your logical thinking is a good idea Hun!
Can't believe you booked it already haha! DEFFO no waiting around ey!! Youll have bought your dress tomorrow at this rate lol! I wish you all the luck in the world and a BIG congratulations again!!! Xx
 
That sounds like a lovely plan! Aww so happy for you! And yes your body will have had time to get totally back to natural and who knows what can happen in the meanwhile ;)
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I think Louise is spot on , enjoy all the prep and then go for it!
 
This is where we are getting married,,,,,,Christmas decs will be up for our wedding too :D

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That's my 'Fiance' in the pic :D
 
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That looks a lovely place hunny x x


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ur venue is beautiful, congrats again samsgirl!! soo happy for you xx
 
Congrats for setting a date at least preparing everything for yr big day may take yr mind off ttc and like the others said you never no :)
The venue looks amazing btw!! How lovely that will be at crimbo time :)
xx
 
WOW gorgeous venue samsgirl! thats going to be lovely!

One of my friends got married in tri3, she acually had her daughter 2 days after wedding, and they had a big white wedding, she found it very difficult to get a dress though, and couldnt have a honeymoon but i don't think she was caring about that :)
 
Conceiving on your wedding night or on the honeymoon is so romantic :love: I think it was Jodie that managed that one - gosh that feels like forever ago :oooo:


I got pregnant on my wedding night/honeymoon!! I got married in The Gambia on 7th December 5 years ago today!! Wee Joshua was born on 6th September 10 days late!!

I think this sounds like a good plan - but really hope you get your BFP like NOW and then your little one can celebrate the day with you too....
 
ooooo he is nice :p
good luck hun and sounds very thought out and well planned
congrats and good luck :)
 

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