***December 2016 mums***

[mummywanabe]

I think that's just boys too lol he hasn't enough hours in the day to do all the things he wants, I walked into the girls aisle at asda yesterday and my hubby had to hold me back, gorgeous girlie pink clothes everywhere! Stopped myself and just bought some vests and sleep-suits, never imagined myself having a girl I was so used to having boy stuff everywhere lol

 

[mummywanabe]

Will u find out ikklemoi?

 

[BunnyN]

Our two are the opposite lol. Our girl has never stopped moving since her first scan. She is 3 now and still hyper. Our boy is much more chilled. This one, judging by our scan and the constant wiggles is also high energy! DD was a very high maintenance baby. Its going to be a bit crazy if this one is like her . I'm also trying to make the most out of enjoying the wiggles. I think this will be our last. I'd love more but will be 37 when this one is born and don't think I can deal with pregnancy and HG again any time soon.

 

[Ikklemoi]

Yeah mummy I've booked in for a gender scan on Wednesday can't wait the days seem to be dragging tho. X

 

[mummywanabe]

Yeh I'd deffo have more but the hyperemesis was so bad again this time I just don't think I can do it again

 

[Ikklemoi]

Awww mummy did you get a lot of sickness and stuff with your little boy too? Just found out someone a kno is also having a little girl, seeing so many ladies having little girlies makes me broody for a girl, even tho a kno I'd just be as happy with a little boy really, but think it's always nice the idea of a woman with a little daughter too, I'm so close to my mum as I've grown older. Xx

 

[mummywanabe]

Yeh awful sickness with them both it passes but at the time I literally feel like I could die and I'd be ok with it, a little dramatic I know lol

 

[Ikklemoi]

Awww mummy I had bad nausea with this baby, was sick a few times too and a felt the same, cannot deal with been sick or the sickly feeling. :/ never had it before with my boys but this time I have, maybe It's to do with this house been too hot aswell. We soon forget about sickness and pain from labour etc don't we. I keep having dreams that I'll have my baby early before my section is booked in, it's a strange dream cos a see I'm holding a baby but can't make out the babies face etc. The dreams get crazy in pregnancy don't they. Xx

 

[mummywanabe]

The dreams are mad, last night I dreamt I was in a performance of Les mid but mixed up the script and was painted head to toe green as elpheba from wicked, have never acted a day in my life haha and then dreamt that I got on the plain to Spain but arrived back at my house and everyone was trying to convince me we were on holiday and not in my own house, have also dreamt a few times my hubby cheated and then I wake up ready to punch him lol

 

[Ikklemoi]

Hey ladies, been to see the consultant he's scared me to death saying that it's a risky procedure and a need a consultant in the theatre with me incase the worse case scenario. I'm booked in for the 13th Dec so weird knowing babies birthday already x

 

[BunnyN]

Ikklemoi- Am I right that they are worried because you have had multiple sections? Do they have a partucular reason to be woried about your case? I know the risks with repeat sections are higher but it seems like they are being a bit over the top. It doesnt make sense that the risks suddenly shoot up that high. They might be being over cautious but the good thing is that they are paying good attention and will be more than ready if anything were to go wrong.

 

[Ikklemoi]

Yeah bunny apparently with this been my 4th c section it's very high risk and they went consultant in there incase something goes wrong with me or the baby, which is understandable and good but makes my anxiety shoot up even more. He was pushing for me to get sterilised at the same time but I've read it's not a good thing to get done along with the c section with regards to the pain and recovery time. Xx

 

[mummywanabe]

My friend is on her 4th pregnancy all her babies have been emergency c section she was told exactly the same I think it's all precaution and they're just following protocol, I'm more terrified this time that I was with my first Ryan's birth was fairly quick, 2 paracetamol and some gas, fairly straightforward apart form 3rd degree tearing and a whoooooooooooooole lot of stitching lol so I'm afraid this time it couldn't possibly go as easy as last time

 

[Ikklemoi]

Ahhh is she mummy? I just overthink with my anxiety Anyways so something small a blow outta proportion because I'm literally terrified of the Unknown. Awww you might have another good straightforward birth my sisters always had straight forward ones I've got my scan tomorrow eeeeek, cannot wait to see baby and find out if it's another son or a daughter. Listened to the heartbeat again today was 170bpm they said baby is very wroggly even tho a couldnt feel s thing. Gosh. A bet stitches hurt a lot. Xx

 

[Tonks82]

Hi ladies are any of you on a Facebook group for December due mums??

19 weeks today and have my scan Tuesday!! I'm starting to feel less anxious about my screening result I just hope everything is ok with the scan.
I hope I can start buying things after next week.

For those of you that had recent miscarriages before this pregnancy do any of you feel like you've been pregnant forever!! I had a mc in Jan before conceiving again March so I feel like I've already been pregnant since Nov 2015 before that I had early losses in Oct15 and Aug15. I actually can't wait to have the baby and actually plan some proper letting my hair down with lots of alcohol and no ttc, MC or pregnancy issues in the back of my mind!!

Xxx

 

[Slb24]

Good luck ikklemoi!

Tonks.. I feel the same. I should have a baby now from my first and second MC. It's weird to think that I don't and I'm still pregnant.
But I'm just hoping all is well with this baby.
What screening result tonks? Have you not had your 12 week results? Mine were 1 in 100,000 so really low risk. Or are you on about the measurements they take at 20 weeks?

I've started buying. I can't put it off forever lol

My scan is the 22nd. Il only be 18+5 xx

 

[Tonks82]

My results are still low risk I'm 1in1000 but they are lot higher than my son and with all the losses I've had I just feel extra anxious that I'm destined for something to go wrong. I was worried they would deal me some blow at the 20 week scan but hopefully it will be fine.

Are you going to find out the sex or do you know already??

Xxx

 

[Slb24]

I wouldn't worry about that Hun. If u don't mind me asking is it due to factors such as age or the fluid amount?

Did u ever have the recurrent MC appointment? Did they do chromosome tests on you and hubby? Mine did.

Everything will be fine Hun. I'm sure baby is healthy.

I'm having another little girl

I've been wondering if I can't carry boys :/ my mum swears she can't as she's had 5 MCs and 2 girls (me and my sister). I know they say it's a myth but it seems like history has repeated itself with me and my mum xx

 

[BunnyN]

Yeh, I kind of know what you mean Tonks. I had my MC in October but had a bad time with it and was quite anemic for ages after. I was just getting back to myself when I got pregnant again. Of course I am delighted to be pregnant but then I had HG and since then a cold and now Im struggling with tooth trouble. It seems a bit never ending and still not half way through pregnancy yet.

 

[Tonks82]

I'm 33, the NT measurement is 2.7mm. My twin is pregnant as well Her NT measurement is like 1.6mm and her risk was 1in10000 so I think it was down to the NT measurement.

I had a recurrent miscarriage appointment booked for April or March but they cancelled it and tried to rebook it for May by then I'd had my 12 week scan so I didn't bother going. I kind of know that there was never any issue apart from bad luck.

Oh yeah I can remember now your having a girl. I can't wait to find out next week!!
Xxx