When our LO is born we have decided the best situation for us is for me to carry on with work and my OH to stay and look after are baby. I would obviously love to stay at home but one of us has to work and at the moment I can earn a better wage and I am in a job but due to my OHs Aspergers he has found it difficult to find suitable work.
Now I will breast feed and will express milk, I have a very understanding boss and she knows that some days I may not feel like I am up to coming into work and for me the important thing is that my baby is safe and will be being well looked after I feel that a strong bond with its father is just as important as a strong bond with me I know this is not always possible for some family's but as it is with ours then I would like this for us.
But so far everyone I have told have really criticized it my parents haven't and neither have my OH's because they understand the situation we are in. Thing is the ones that have said that it should be me that stays home have made me feel as though I am being selfish for going back too work. I want to be at home with my baby as much as any mum would but it just isn't possible. And when ever anyone critisizes I can never think of what too say back.
Is it really that wrong for me to go back to work after having a baby?
Now I will breast feed and will express milk, I have a very understanding boss and she knows that some days I may not feel like I am up to coming into work and for me the important thing is that my baby is safe and will be being well looked after I feel that a strong bond with its father is just as important as a strong bond with me I know this is not always possible for some family's but as it is with ours then I would like this for us.
But so far everyone I have told have really criticized it my parents haven't and neither have my OH's because they understand the situation we are in. Thing is the ones that have said that it should be me that stays home have made me feel as though I am being selfish for going back too work. I want to be at home with my baby as much as any mum would but it just isn't possible. And when ever anyone critisizes I can never think of what too say back.
Is it really that wrong for me to go back to work after having a baby?