we went to the solicitor to change my eldest boy's surname via deed poll.
the problem with not doing it legally is that it can be confusing.
ie my name is Davina Tara, but my nan hated the name Davina so i have always been known as Tara Davina, hence when i started work that was what my wage slips said, but when i started at the Met Police i had to have it the correct way round, now everyone at the NHS calls me Davina. but to everyone else i am Tara.
see confused, yep. contact a solicitor re changing by deed poll. if you earn below a certain amount, you get it done through legal aid and its free.