hi, i joined this forum a month ago and its been absoloutly brilliant to be honest i think the ladies here are more informative than the docs!
i had 2nd miscarriage a week ago at 12wks.
however i feel kind of ok about it but the problem is i keep thinking bout my first m/c that was at 20 weeks and it was a boy. i had this m/c in march and thought i was coping and tryed for another one but lost that. however its the 1st baby i keep thinking about, i find i cant visit his grave anymore and thats killing me with the guilt coz everytime i go i find my entire day is hard to get thru.
another prob is actually talking bout why it happened. the hospital results showed clotting of the cord and restricting oxygen to baby and dats all they gave me i wish i asked for more info coz then i could get on with life.
i keep thinking i have one of them clotting disorders the internet can make u paranoid. with second m/c they aint gonna bother investigating.
im thinking wat bout 3rd time wats gonna happen.
was also thinking if any of you ladies are familiar with this issue coz i know ppl who have had m/c but nothing bout clotting.
any advice appreciated...so sorry bout long read but this forum really really helps me get by!
i had 2nd miscarriage a week ago at 12wks.
however i feel kind of ok about it but the problem is i keep thinking bout my first m/c that was at 20 weeks and it was a boy. i had this m/c in march and thought i was coping and tryed for another one but lost that. however its the 1st baby i keep thinking about, i find i cant visit his grave anymore and thats killing me with the guilt coz everytime i go i find my entire day is hard to get thru.
another prob is actually talking bout why it happened. the hospital results showed clotting of the cord and restricting oxygen to baby and dats all they gave me i wish i asked for more info coz then i could get on with life.
i keep thinking i have one of them clotting disorders the internet can make u paranoid. with second m/c they aint gonna bother investigating.
im thinking wat bout 3rd time wats gonna happen.
was also thinking if any of you ladies are familiar with this issue coz i know ppl who have had m/c but nothing bout clotting.
any advice appreciated...so sorry bout long read but this forum really really helps me get by!