Can anyone give me advice on what to do about horrible neighbours?

[violet13]

Okay so a week ago a neighbour attacked me, hes a old man in his 80s but pretty perverted from what his own daughter has told me (it gets complicated) he had a very ill wife and used to drug her he had girls come to check on her and he did things which is extremely wrong to these girls, well he grabbed hold of me made a vile comment and then proceeded to give me comments while walking the dogs, every time I walked them, then showed up at my house. Now I'm on my own atm and not feeling that safe, my dogs won't attack someone they're too daft for that but I asked a neighbour to keep an eye on me while my boyfriend was away, he went and told his wife (we've had problems with these two before but things have been ok until now) who came haring round to my house not the front door but the back gate which I have chained and padlockd for safety, she began screaming at me over this man "hes an old man" "you where harassing him" Now her husband is spineless to say the least so he never says anything but she kept screaming at me over this that and the other, now she is going round all our neighbours trying to get them to basically kick off and get me out of the house we rent and the owners got a direct complaint from her last time regarding our dogs we had 4 we had to get rid of one because of this :'( or we'd of been evicted the dog was rehomed in germnay to a lovely couple but yet again this only happens when my boyfriend is not around and he is livid over what has happened. I honestly do not know what to do as this woman completely and utterly believes this man is harmless yet he has done this to 2 15 year olds by me as well and scared them pretty badly. What can I do? I really want to move away xxx

 

[babyslog]

Possible report the matters to the police about te man grabbing u and the harrassment from this women..
And move house if ur not happy!? If ur only renting u should be able to move quite easily and quick! X

 

[Rachaellius]

I would most definitely inform the police, the man should most definitely not get away with sexual assault which is what it is if he touched you, you never know other girls might have reported him too and they might have a case against him, as for the other lady I'd tell the police about her too for intimidating you. Good Luck x

 

[mrz85]

I agree call the police!

 

[Kloe]

Go to the police! I'd move, them trying to get rid of you will probaby be doing you a favour in the long run. I'd hate to live around people like that.

 

[Daisy2011]

Its very hard to have stressy fights with your neighbours, its your home and it affects you more than you think.
They are obviously neither your freinds nor safe people to be around and therefore perhaps your longer term plan should be to move , becuase they may not be mature enough to actually back down or be supportive.
If this man has touched you and it was inwanted and is verbally abusing you then at least call your community officer - they will go round and give him a caution. It is likely that if this is his nature that he will have a record for it and that will mean that he will keep away from you to avoid more contact with the police.

Dont just sit and take it tell the cops and investigate moving becuase these are not people you want to live near.

good luck and belive in yourself.
x Daisy