bye

[breezee1984]

u still leaving?

no..i think ill stick around for awhile

 

[Vickyleigh]

No one has ever said they have wanted to leave us before

Honestly Breezee, we're a nice bunch here your always welcome

 

[breezee1984]

i know...it just still pains me so much to see so many moms and pregnant women

 

[Baileysmummy]

i know...it just still pains me so much to see so many moms and pregnant women

this is a pregnancy forum though hun..

if you feel so low maybe you need some extra help to try and get over it,

 

[Vickyleigh]

I agree!! In all fairness if your finding it hard seeing other pregnant women then this is the last place you should be as it is full of pregnant ladies!

 

[fynemum]

I believe this forum has a place for EVERYONE... and yes it may have the main function as our pregnancy forum but it also has this section for us ladies who have lost, Our friends (mums to be; Mums at present and Mums to Angels ) All have a roll to play in the fantastic support on offer here....
I Do Truly know how hard it is to see others pregnant when you have lost, and lost again. I know the pain of seeing tickers and live children on signatures, when thats all you really want. But One Day.... YOU WILL have you ticker Proudly Telling people about your expected arrival... and then your Beautiful childs picture will be on display.... This gives us HOPE, and this way of looking to the Future is the best way for us to heal... Believe me Breezee. You will get there, and you already sound like you've turned a corner or two...keep moving forward Doll...
Lv to all here, Yvonne xx

 

[moomoo192]

Breeze

I'm so glad you decided to stay, i'm sorry to hear of your loss to , things will get easier for you, it might not feel like that right now but with the help and support of the geat women on this forum things will in time get easier and you will get your dream come true again, just take each day as it comes.

I also agree with another poster, if you are feeling Realy low you may want to go and get some 'more' help from your doctor or just have a chat with them and see if they suggest something, you may just find actually talking to someone sympathetic but face to face helps a whole load more.

Take care
xxx

 

[breezee1984]

ive tried and just keep being told the same crap..that ill be fine sooner or later and to just deal with it

 

[moomoo192]

Maybe a private councellor would be beter then, they wont tell you to go away, things will be beter soon, they'll talk to you get you to open up your feelings and teach you how to deal and cope with them

The help is out there i think you need to get some for yourself so you start feeling beter and getting back on top of things.
xx

 

[breezee1984]

every proffesional i see keeps telling me to vent this way, because its my way of dealing with it....so i am...

 

[Jo]

Sorry i don't understand
vent in what way?
On a forum?

 

[libs]

I'm surprised any professional tells you to vent by posting negativity. Surely it's common sense that to adopt a positive outcome leads to a positive frame of mind? Sometimes it's hard to do that and everyone needs a moan now and then, but on a low day I know I feel better either by supporting someone else or by congratulating someone. It just makes me feel that the world is still a good place and my good times will come.

 

[breezee1984]

well yes sort of...people around me wont listen to a damn thing i have to say or care about any felings i have about this...so i dont really have any other way to vent, and ive been told venting my anger towards anything is better than holding it in, so to just release it as i see fit...so yes kind of i guess

 

[libs]

but the effects of venting your anger here are a lot of people getting wound up at you which increases your negativity and anger. Wouldn't it be better to speak to someone like the Samaritans who can listen to you without taking anything personally? Give you a chance to get it all off your chest without having to argue or justify yourself - that's what they're there for. Also writing a journal that lets you write whatever you want may help.

 

[Jo]

I really don't think venting your anger to strangers is a good idea TBH especially on a board where hormones are flying
I think it is mental the a proffsinal has suggested that to you

 

[breezee1984]

i am only doing what was suggested to me by a doctor of mental health....and trust me there is no one who will listen to me vent...im stuck typing on a message board and venting my anger towards you guys because nobody else will listen to me or even really cares....ive tried writing in a journal but all i do is cry over it and feel worse.

 

[libs]

Again - organisations like the Samaritans are there to listen to give you a chance to vent without anyone getting frustrated or angry at you and without you having to justify what you say. Have you tried them?

 

[Urchin]

Breezee you cannot continue to "vent your anger" towards our members who have done nothing wrong. You have to stop using us as your punching bag. It's not on, I don't care who told you to do it.
You are breaking forum rules by doing this.

I suggested you pm me when I locked your last thread, and you didn't. I suggest AGAIN you pm me now to discuss this, or I will consider deactivating your membership until this matter is sorted out.

 

[fynemum]

The title to this post is bye..... as you know I have encouraged you to stay and offered you support, comfort and understanding.... BUT, I hate to say
Maybe it's time to move on then breezee, as this forum doesn't seem to be helping you? Or am i wrong?
What about going into chat rooms? Vent there? Would that be an option?
What ever you decide I hope you find peace.
Good bye Breezee Sweetheart, and good luck for the future Doll.


Lv Yvonne xx

 

[breezee1984]

hmm...this is interesting..i dont see how people can tell me its not normal to vent nger after a thing like miscarriage./...what am i suppose to do???...sit here with smiles and sunshine??