BFN support thread

[Rhelen91]

Hi All,
So a lot of us are in the testing threads each month, and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to have a seperate support thread for those of us who get BFNs. Whilst we are always happy for our fellow TTCers when they get their BFP It can still be really upsetting and disheartening to see BFNs month after month, and maybe this could be the place we can all come and have a bit of a rant and sound off about it all and support each other through these low points in the TTC journey. I did a quick check and cant see any other threads for this purpose except the Long term TTC thread but thats for people who have been ttc for over a year. Anyone is welcome to come here after a BFN so we can help pick each other up and spread the baby dust and positivity around xx

 

[MrsS15]

That's a good idea Helen

I hope I don't need the use of your thread (no offence ) but if I do, nice to know this is here xx

 

[Rhelen91]

No offence taken, good luck xx

 

[ttc_anon]

Hi I tested today and got a negative so think this is a great idea! This was cycle 4 for me and was so hoping for a nice Christmas present!

 

[hoping12]

It can be so hard to keep getting a negative. Been trying for 12 months and not got anywhere yet whilst seeing lots of friends get a bfp. Important we support each other!

 

[fairyprincess]

Good idea, I got a BFN the other day so just waiting for AF to arrive now x

 

[Rhelen91]

I got my BFN today too. Hopefully we will all have better luck next month. It's nice knowing we're not alone in this and can understand each others disappointment and misery xx

 

[J9nine]

Great idea! Hopefully new year BFPs all round. Plus September/October babies do better in school anyway so BFPs in January would be much better
xx