Beyond confused,

[Alicebear]

oh My cycles are 32 days around there, I'm cd41 so 9 days late.

 

[Elen123]

9 days late it's looking very food 4 u Hun! I bet Sunday can't come quick enough lol!xx

 

[Alicebear]

oh well i think its looking pretty bad for me and much better for you since you've had spotting! have you tested yet?

 

[Elen123]

I have tested but it's come out negative but no sign of af. I'm thinking I might have tested to early plus they were very cheap tests!

 

[Alicebear]

sorry to hear that! must be hard getting negatives how many days are you late for af? are they the test with the lines?

 

[Elen123]

I'm only about 2 days late I think. Yeah the test with the lines. I'd rather af to start if it's on it's way just so I know! X

 

[Alicebear]

yeah i know what your talking about. my cycles have been 32 days and most o days my husband is away because hes in infantry school and leaves for 1,2,3 or even 4 weeks straight!! But now that hes coming back and it was ment to be the good o week, my af decides not to show up killing our plans of trying before he leaves again. Not only is his work against us but my cycles too!! nightmare!!

 

[Elen123]

Oh no that sounds like an absoloute nightmare!! Who ever thought making a baby was so difficult lol! Xx

 

[Alicebear]

haha yes! lets just hope its not to long. wishing luck!!!!

 

[Kiki0210]

Totally stalking u both!!!! Fingers x'd for u girls xxx

 

[Alicebear]

haha thanks kiki0120 i think everyone is stalking each other

 

[Elen123]

Well af came I'm so disappointed x

 

[Alicebear]

awww I'm so sorry for you hun, well I'm feeling like af is coming too. I'm starting to think that my cycle is just messed up. If so im going to take it hard as without being able to plan with my husband being away a lot i might be in for the long run with ttc. I wish you all the best for next cycle. I 'll take a test tomorrow if it comes back negative i'll let you know. If so then i wish my af would just hurry up too. hugs

 

[jojo3972]

soo sorryy!! xxx

 

[Alicebear]

hey jojo3972 your pic looks like someone i know. your names not Sharon is it? sorry if that's a weird question

 

[Elen123]

I'm gutted oh well roll on next month. My oh says me stressing about not getting pregnant is not helping me get pregnant (if that makes sense lol!) alicebear Im sure u'll get a bfp tmoz fingers crossed for you anyways Hun. The dreaded bfn is so disheartening. Good luck ladies xx

 

[Alicebear]

aww poor you Elen i got a bfn today boo!!! now i wish i was in your shoes you seem so lucky compared to me. Still no sign of af and my doc told me that i cant see him till the 31st!! what am i going to do??

 

[Elen123]

It is probably best for af to start the not knowing what's going on! Have you tried the other tests Hun? Have you thought of SMEP Hun that's what everyone keeps suggesting for me to do. Are you always late Hun or is this unusual? Xx

 

[Alicebear]

well i can't really do it since my husband is away nearly every 2nd week for 2 weeks or more. And i just used one test this morning. there was no line not even an evap line. I always have a 32 cycle i have never missed my period ever. now i'm starting to be scared of ovary cyst and things, that's what i keep hearing since i have missed my period and the doc won't even see me.

 

[Elen123]

I honestly wouldn't think the worst just yet Hun, I'm sure there's a simple explanation. It will happen for you Hun I honestly believe that! U might still be testing to early! Xx