and it was a she not a he and she was lovely
After telling her about everything last week - she asked to do an internal as she felt I had probably had a miscarriage. She said that my cervix was wide open (see told you
) and that my womb was still a little bulky 
and so it was a miscarriage 
She said that my body had done exactly as it should have done when miscarrying, and that as I had no pain and everything looked good I didn't need to go to the hospital or anything unless I was concerned.
She also checked me for fibroids etc and said that as far as she could tell I was clear, but that she wanted to do another internal in a couple of weeks to check the bulkiness had disappeared
What she was concerned about was that I have gained weight v quickly, and seemed a little anaemic, so blood tests are being done on my thyroid, as as I've said before I'm the oldest female in my family without thyroid problems.
She also said I have a severly tilted womb (noone ever thought to mention this to me before?) and that may be causing problems with the donation, but she said to take the miscarriage as a positive sign that I'm ovulating and CAN get pregnant. She agreed with us taking a month off, said to rest over the next week
chance would be a fine thing.
My painful and heavy periods may have no cause, she says to think of the heaviness as at least my body is laying down a good nutrient supply for conception each month, and although there are treatments, she doesn't recommend them when TTC as they are all hormonal. She says to come back after having a baby or when we decide not to try anymore and they will definately be able to help, but she recommends leaving well alone atm.
I was a little upset and went to mums for a good cry (and my heavily pregnant v patronising sister just has to be there ) and still feel like crap now. I really really don't want to go to work tonight, but don't think I can explain why to my male v indiscreet boss
After telling her about everything last week - she asked to do an internal as she felt I had probably had a miscarriage. She said that my cervix was wide open (see told you
) and that my womb was still a little bulky and so it was a miscarriage She said that my body had done exactly as it should have done when miscarrying, and that as I had no pain and everything looked good I didn't need to go to the hospital or anything unless I was concerned.She also checked me for fibroids etc and said that as far as she could tell I was clear, but that she wanted to do another internal in a couple of weeks to check the bulkiness had disappeared
What she was concerned about was that I have gained weight v quickly, and seemed a little anaemic, so blood tests are being done on my thyroid, as as I've said before I'm the oldest female in my family without thyroid problems.
She also said I have a severly tilted womb (noone ever thought to mention this to me before?) and that may be causing problems with the donation, but she said to take the miscarriage as a positive sign that I'm ovulating and CAN get pregnant. She agreed with us taking a month off, said to rest over the next week
chance would be a fine thing. My painful and heavy periods may have no cause, she says to think of the heaviness as at least my body is laying down a good nutrient supply for conception each month, and although there are treatments, she doesn't recommend them when TTC as they are all hormonal. She says to come back after having a baby or when we decide not to try anymore and they will definately be able to help, but she recommends leaving well alone atm.
I was a little upset and went to mums for a good cry (and my heavily pregnant v patronising sister just has to be there
) and still feel like crap now. I really really don't want to go to work tonight, but don't think I can explain why to my male v indiscreet boss 
