Hiya I am back to TTC after my miscarriage. The spotting stopped and I got a negative pregnancy test so I am ready to try again. The only problem is that I have no idea where I am in my cycle right now. I have no EWCM yet so we decided to just have sex every other day. I have to get my husband back on the vitamins and make him drink more water etc. So annoying that I have to go through ovulation tests , tracking , etc... I really hope I get pregnant again and stay pregnant this time. Even if I get pregnant I cant relax till at least 12 weeks.
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Back here after miscarriage
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Awww so sorry about your miscarriage, I hope you get your next BFP very soon and you have a happy and healthy pregnancy. It's great that you are ready to give it another try straight away, try to keep positive and not stress yourself out too much.
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So sorry. Yes it's annoying not knowing where you are in your cycle. My cycles weren't normal for a few months. Alot of women get pregnant very soon after mc. My OH put on a lot of weight between me being pregnant and the mc...it's easy to let things slide. I hope you get another BFP soon.
I keep thinking at least this time if I get a pos test I will be more prepared.
I keep thinking at least this time if I get a pos test I will be more prepared.
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Sorry about your mc hun 
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I agree with sunflower, you can get pregnant straight after a mc, I got pregnant 3 times in a row, sep was a chemical then Oct mc at 8w in Nov then pos test in Dec again.
I would dtd every other day
Fx for a sticky bfp very soon.
xI agree with sunflower, you can get pregnant straight after a mc, I got pregnant 3 times in a row, sep was a chemical then Oct mc at 8w in Nov then pos test in Dec again.
I would dtd every other day
Fx for a sticky bfp very soon.
Thank you girls. It’s so annoying as my husband stopped drinking the last 3 months of TTC and we got pregnant but he started again and I don’t think he will be giving up again. It’s just so annoying that I have to also make him detox etc. And he hates it as he thinks I am controlling him. But on the other hand he really wants to have a baby more than before. This miscarriage made him want more and he said we will try and try until it happens.
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I am in a similar situation, but i am also as bad as my oh
which obviously doesnt help, but if i suggested maybe cutting down, he will be all for it, but once that first beer has gone down, thats it, game over 
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Oh and also Maximus, was talking to a lady at work just now and she said she had a two miss carriages and fell pregnant again very quickly. All our bodies are very different, so you might find it doesnt take long at all.
I wish you all the baby dust in the world
I wish you all the baby dust in the world
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I'm so sorry you had to go through this! It makes me so sad.
Wishing you tons of luck this time and praying it's a sticky bean when it does happen
My husband drank 6-8 drinks a day while we were TTCing and I still got pregnant. I don't know if your husband has sperm issues or not, but if he doesn't, I wouldn't worry too much about his drinking. Just focus on you, eating healthy and taking those vitamins. Wishing you lots of baby dust!!
Wishing you tons of luck this time and praying it's a sticky bean when it does happen
My husband drank 6-8 drinks a day while we were TTCing and I still got pregnant. I don't know if your husband has sperm issues or not, but if he doesn't, I wouldn't worry too much about his drinking. Just focus on you, eating healthy and taking those vitamins. Wishing you lots of baby dust!!
Hiya I am not sure if he has any sperm issues but maybe he does as he is 40 now and also smokes occasionally. I am trying not to obsess about him. I am going to put him on the vitamins again and just think positive this time. Thank you all for being here x
I noticed some ewcm and ovulation pains last night but nothing like I used to have. It was only for a day and all gone now so not sure if I ovulated as we are on holiday and I am not using any opks this month. We shall see if I manage to get pregnant this month but I doubt it...
