why dont u have a baby shower towards the end of your pregnancy, invite all your friends and family and write a wish list, then everone choose sometime they would like to buy u...EG bottles, dummies, towels, blanket, bottle warmer, steraliser, thermometre, baby clothes, nappies, bath/bathing equipment, rattles....have a range of items on your list costing from a couple of pounds to a gift some people may want to splash out on. saves you money, gets your friends and family involved and its a bit of fun too...im going to holda baby shower towards the end of my pregnancy x