because i was bf on demand i just do the same now! though he has settled into a rough routine, wake up and feed between 6:30am-8am then awake for a few hours, nap then feed between 1pm-3pm awake again for a few hours then a smaller nap feed again between 7pm-9pm then awake (with little doses as he really fights sleep at this time!) until last feed between 10:30pm-1am. must admit though he doesn't have a fixed amount of food, he'll have 4/5oz at all feeds then ask for more whilst he's having his awake time, and that can be up to another 4oz but i'm not worried about him over eating as he's kinda only having only 4 main feeds and most formula's recommend 6/8 feeds!
what position are you winding him in? maybe lay him over your legs on his tummy and pat his back like that, see if that helps with the wind coming up.
if you can bf and its not to painful for you i really would stick with it as long as you can, once you introduce a bottle and they get used to it they get lazy which is why they don't latch back onto the breast properly! (that's one of the reasons i cant go back to it now!)
i was like that too, spending all day with him in my arms as he wouldn't settle any other way! but i tried the leaving him to it a few times and he did cry a little bit but settled him and put him right back in again and he was fine! he's been going down first time for a few days now! try it and really stick to the only picking him up if he's crying!
hope that helps x
what position are you winding him in? maybe lay him over your legs on his tummy and pat his back like that, see if that helps with the wind coming up.
if you can bf and its not to painful for you i really would stick with it as long as you can, once you introduce a bottle and they get used to it they get lazy which is why they don't latch back onto the breast properly! (that's one of the reasons i cant go back to it now!)
i was like that too, spending all day with him in my arms as he wouldn't settle any other way! but i tried the leaving him to it a few times and he did cry a little bit but settled him and put him right back in again and he was fine! he's been going down first time for a few days now! try it and really stick to the only picking him up if he's crying!
hope that helps x