Congratulations Jedi, iv'e not been much of a commenter here more of a lurker but I wanted to comment to support you and say I had my first born at 32 weeks. He was also in an incubator. He was a good weight tho at 4lb 3 n he dropped to 3 pound 10. How heavy is your little one? I'm not going to lie it's so hard when they are in hospital and you get discharged. I was sent Home the same day n my son stayed in for 3 weeks. I spent all day with him in hospital and tried to be part of any care they allowed me to do. It was easy then as I had no other children. I was hoping for an easy ride thus time found but this baby I'm now 33 weeks pregnant with has spina bifida so again I'm looking at incubators, wires and a long hospital stay. Just wanted you to know I do know how hard it is and I am happy to answer any questions you have. Hope he makes a speedy recovery and that day you take him home will be extra special. Lots of love xx